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| Tue, 07-20-2010 - 9:25pm |
Ok, I'll bite and start a post about First Times....
I am no longer in an A.
| Tue, 07-20-2010 - 9:25pm |
Ok, I'll bite and start a post about First Times....
I am no longer in an A.
Aw, allismom...I'm glad you are able to share the good times, even though you are in a lot of pain now.
Our first time was 18 years ago ;).
We lost touch about 15 years ago, I then moved 2000 miles away.
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I met my OM online, on a social message board. It was a fun place, where grown-ups "played" - pretended to be in bars, in livingrooms, in cafes - and this was way before second life LOL. We had parties, we had WEDDINGS, and "couples" set up their own houses. He was a witty writer and in lots of fantasies, mostly at the castle, where I did not go...
A mutual cyber friend "introduced" us, and we started e-mailing, just fun stuff. We hung out on the board, in hot tubs and bars LOL. After a few months, we arranged to meet "for real". We both knew at that point that an A was where we were headed. My first sight of him was great - tall, leather jacket, sunglasses. We went into the place we met and when he took off his sunglasses, he had the most beautiful eyes, that's when he "had" me I guess.
We went to several public places and talked up a storm. Then we went to his place, and I guess we did get a little physical. Not completely, but enough that I consider this to be our "first time".
Since then, he has never given me a single reason to have squirrels. He has never run hot and cold, he's always just the right temp LOL. It's been 11 years, and I still love to remember those first moments of seeing him, and seeing him take off those sunglasses, while looking intently at me.
You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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Our first time was 3 years ago. He was my daughter's teacher (he was single) I was in a R with someone else. He ended it stating that he could not be with a students mother. I was hurt and never got over loving him. In Aug of 2008, he married and I had to leave town to deal with this. In may he contacted me and told me that he missed me. We are now back to having an A.
I remember every time with him, there is so much chemistry and passion, its crazy. I am just waiting for his marriage to fall apart, he is not happy otherwise he wouldnt be wanting me. He will never admit this and tells me that we can have no feelings for each other, just sex. I guess I am ok with that for the moment. Having him in my life is better than not having him at all. I have loved him for almost 4 years, am not going to stop any time soon.
I am sitting back waiting for him to come to me someday and tell me that I should of been the one he married. I am hoping he figures this out sooner rather than later!
you have had an ongoing affair for 11 years? is that correct? how did you do that? what were the early years like? lucky you never got the hot and cold. i don't know what to make of that save inexperience, or lack of confidence/knowing what one wants.
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