Over Before It Barely Started...

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-12-2009
Over Before It Barely Started...
2
Sun, 07-12-2009 - 8:59pm

Hi,


iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2006
Mon, 07-13-2009 - 4:06am

Cindy,


I guess I am confused on the "how to get over him?" when there is really nothing to get over?


You admit to seeing each other like twice a year and there was a little petting at a function you both attended. Maybe I am missing the deep emotional connection here...I think this would be an easy one to get over.


Good luck.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-18-2009
Mon, 07-13-2009 - 1:55pm

Classic example of the saying: "He's NOT that into you!". He's actions and even his words are telling you that he's not willing to jeopardize his life for what you're offering. Please take heed. If you persist on pursuing an A with this man, you'll only end up worst than you are now. Probably even suicidal or stalker(ish). He knows how taken you are with him already. Men who love's their family find that scary and maybe why he's not going there with you. Besides, men like to work a little harder to get a woman even if they have no intention of keeping her.

Why open yourself up for the possibility of such pain and drama when you already see all the writing on the wall?

Shadow Word generated at Pimp-My-Profile.com