Over thinking or something else....

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Over thinking or something else....
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Sun, 02-08-2004 - 1:29pm
Sometimes my OM would spend his time overthinking in his emails - all of the week work that I put in to keep our R going would thrown in the water.
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Registered: 01-03-2004
Sun, 02-08-2004 - 9:21pm


I'm having a huge difficulty right now with the no contact times and he probably was as well.

It's not that I don't love my MM. I adore him. It's just that when I need to talk with him, I can't. And over the weekend, a million little things come up that I want to share, or sometimes need to share, and things change from one email to the next.

And waiting for an email in return is hell...:(

Cazrida

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Mon, 02-09-2004 - 9:13am
My MM and I only see each other at work. We have so much no contact times it drives me crazy too. I think men just don't deal with it the same way as we do. I just try to keep patience for the times we spend together. I know he's thinking of me even though he can't contact me. That's what gets me through the tough times. I know it is not easy but I believe anything worth having is worth working for.
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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 02-09-2004 - 9:52am
I can sympathise with you caz. MEN!!!! Can you smack his head for me please????
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Registered: 01-31-2004
Tue, 02-10-2004 - 9:43am

Cazrida,


Well my A was online, didn't see him for long periods of time. It very different from affair partner's that get to see each other.... I know you singles can overthink the whole thing but its the same for the married ones too - we too detest being with somebody and wishing we were elsewhere.


Love