Phone sex?

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Phone sex?
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Thu, 10-30-2003 - 9:07am
This may be more info. than anyone wants to know, but I HAVE to tell someone. I'm just bursting... I'm at work today and MM is coming in later. He called me first thing this morning, after W was gone, and he was lying naked in bed. We started talking about things and he told me he was touching himself. Well, I'm not going to go into graphic details but he did the deed while on the phone with me. We've never slept together so there was something just so darn exciting about that...about the sounds he made, etc. I've never done anything like that, especially at work. There were people all around, so all I could do was listen. Afterward I didn't quite know what to say. I just kept telling him I felt lightheaded and flushed. (I STILL do, almost an hour later!) The interesting thing about it, though, is that I just went to the area of the office where all the people he normally works with are. His boss, his close friend... All these people who know him, and all I could think was, "If these people only knew what I just heard." I guess what we did this morning qualified as phone sex, even if I didn't participate? I just can't get over it. I can't stop THINKING about it. When I see him again, I know it's just going to be overwhelming... But the thing is, he didn't seem that eager to talk about it much. It's almost like, after it was over, he was embarrassed about it. I guess that's normal, but does that mean I'd be better off not mentioning it?

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Registered: 10-23-2003
In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 9:16am
IMHO I would definately mention it in a positive and supportive manner...ie tell him how hot it made you - be careful not to indicate that you're concerned about him being embarrassed etc. Dont even go there - just praise him and how excited he made you, he will dig it!

Phone sex can be extremely erotic and even moreso before you've done the deed because what you imagine and fanticize about it only limited by your imagination, not your experiences. It's a long lasting erotic experience because everything was in your mind which doesnt turn off as quickly as our physical responses do.

Next time it's your turn! HA!

cl-liberalgirl

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In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 9:31am
Yeah, that's what I told him -- that I'm going to have to stay home and do that one day. I don't know...that would be tough. I'd be SO embarrassed afterward, which is why I guess I can relate to him being embarrassed. I did keep praising him and telling him how aroused the whole experience made me, but he didn't really react. Then he said something about how he might not come in today after all -- I felt like he was now embarrassed to show his face. This isn't a bashful person, either. Knowing him, I think he'll HAVE to come in to work because he'll be curious what my reaction to him will be. It'd be better for us BOTH to stay home one morning and for him to call me at home at a designated time and us do this together. But then, I don't know...there was something powerful about just listening to him. I kept feeling like I should say something -- give him some material to work with -- but all I could do was listen to the sound of his breathing as it got deeper and deeper... He's REALLY surrounded by people, so if I called him he'd be absolutely powerless to say a word, which would be even more exciting because I'd know that I had a captive audience. My luck, someone would walk into his office right in the heat of things!
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In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 9:45am
Oh man I never thought i would post this stuff but here you go.

I do that for my mm quit often. The first time i did it, i was embarassed but after hearing him tell me how much it turned him on, it gave me the courgage to do it again. So each time was better and better. Now i am really loud and shouting his name....oh man...can't believe i am sharing this.

He did it for me once, actually only cuz he is always at work when we talk but this one time we were able to talk in private while he was house sitting..We both did it at the same time...he wasn't as loud and out with it like i know he can be...in fact he wanted to get off the phone right after which was weird cuz he always wants to talk on the phone so yah i know he was a little embarassed.

All in all, its fun, clean, and really safe.

Give it a try, it really does get the other person excited....and hearing him get excited and turned on gets me excited and turned on.

Let me know if you want to know anything else.

sabrina

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In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 10:24am
Hi Lilah, Phone Sex is a wonderful thing! We have it every chance we get:):)NMR
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In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 10:35am
No, thank you so much for posting! Now I want to do it even more. I'm trying to scheme on which day I could leave early or come in late so I can do that for him! If you're making a lot of noise and he's at work, aren't you worried the people around him might hear? I think I'd feel the need to be quiet like he was. I guess I could ask him just how loud he'd want me to get. He's in a cubicle, and the people around him are already suspicious of all the whispery phone calls he has... I'm definitely going to talk to him about it today if I see/talk to him again. I can honestly say, just the sound of him breathing and the way his voice would break when he tried to talk... He did say just knowing I was listening was turning him on beyond belief. I can imagine it would do the same for me. What does he do while you're doing it? Just sit there and listen? MM didn't say my name or anything. I asked him what he was thinking about and he said he was imagining I was there with him, doing what he was doing for him. It's so weird, knowing someone did that while fantasizing about me (although he's told me in the past that he did that while fantasizing about me...). I'm sure over the course of all of our lives, some member of the male species has done that while thinking about us, but you just don't know about it like I do right now!

Do you think he's having as hard a time forgetting about it as I am? He's driving all over town on errands right now and I can't help but wonder... You know, all that time alone in the car does give one a lot of time to think. I just can't seem to focus on anything. Just when I think I've forgotten about it, it hits me again and I'm feeling all flushed and warm. It feels like we really shared something intimate. It's weird because I have known this guy for so long and we all work with the same people and I just keep thinking that I can't believe I listened in while he did that!!! I'm just so glad I could come here and post it. It's one of those things you just HAVE to tell someone about but can't.


Edited 1/23/2004 8:34:25 AM ET by lilah_iv

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In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 12:19pm
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Edited 9/20/2004 2:04 pm ET ET by seansluv
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In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 1:38pm
Lilah,

Do you realize you just gave out your personal information on the internet where ANYBODY can see it?

Other people who aren't involved in A's visit this site too. Be careful.

Laugh Smiles

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Registered: 09-03-2003
In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 2:01pm
What personal information? Lilah isn't my real first name; Stephens isn't my real last name. Completely made it up. I gave out an e-mail address I set up under a dummy name...even my profile over there is fake. I even faked my home address when I set up the e-mail account. Is there something I'm missing?
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 2:03pm
nope I don't think you missed anything.

I just missed it.

Sorry

Laugh Smiles

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In reply to: lilah_iv
Thu, 10-30-2003 - 2:04pm
good cover lilah.

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