Awh, The A between the coach and the parent. That is so cliche. I almost went there myself years ago when my sons had this really fine baseball coach who let me know that he was very intersted. Thank God I resisted the urge because it would have been a distaster for me and my sons. I hope you really read what the other posters have wrote about this guy being too much of a risk taker and getting thrills from texting him while you are in the presence of ppl who would be devastated if they found out what the two of you were doing. The next thing you know, he might be asking you for a "quicky" in a public restroom or some other place.
Honey, I know how good it feels. I remember the fantasies I had about my sons' old coach. They made for a lot of nice dreams. The urge is so strong it pulls you like a magnet and they know that they are doing it to you and will continue to push you to give in. I literally had to run from this man because the attraction was so strong. It has been a long time ago but I still remember how sweaty my palms and other places would get (sorry if TMI); but please believe me when I say although you deserve happiness and you should seek out something that will give you some sort of thrill this is just not someone you should never cross the line with again. It's just too dangerous for you and your children. You can do this. I ran like h*ll every time that sexy man would even try to come near me (LOL). His poor W would be there while he was making eyes and blowing kisses at me. It's funny now but I am so glad that I didn't give in. It was so hard. I was in a miserable M and I wanted the attention so bad, but I couldn't create the drama it would have caused and I know with me it's all or nothing in relationships. I remember running like a little girl to get away from him and oftentimes he would try to catch me. It was a dumb game of cat and mouse and I was too weak to say no when he touched my arm or hair, so I ran the entire season. I know ppl thought I was psycho but that was the only way I could resist the temptation. Boy was I glad when that season was over. Now I'm glad that I did, and one day if you truly end this you will respect yourself because you did. Oh yeah, and that guy smelled sooooo good also and he tried to get so close to me but I was like Forrest Gump.
I also found out a year later that he was boning another parent of a kid he was coaching and their A was exposed and it was a big ole mess!! You don't need any more drama with all that you are going through with your DH. I know it's hard but find another way.
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"If your husband does leave this earth in the near future and you care and love him,
Honey, I know how good it feels. I remember the fantasies I had about my sons' old coach. They made for a lot of nice dreams. The urge is so strong it pulls you like a magnet and they know that they are doing it to you and will continue to push you to give in. I literally had to run from this man because the attraction was so strong. It has been a long time ago but I still remember how sweaty my palms and other places would get (sorry if TMI); but please believe me when I say although you deserve happiness and you should seek out something that will give you some sort of thrill this is just not someone you should never cross the line with again. It's just too dangerous for you and your children. You can do this. I ran like h*ll every time that sexy man would even try to come near me (LOL). His poor W would be there while he was making eyes and blowing kisses at me. It's funny now but I am so glad that I didn't give in. It was so hard. I was in a miserable M and I wanted the attention so bad, but I couldn't create the drama it would have caused and I know with me it's all or nothing in relationships. I remember running like a little girl to get away from him and oftentimes he would try to catch me. It was a dumb game of cat and mouse and I was too weak to say no when he touched my arm or hair, so I ran the entire season. I know ppl thought I was psycho but that was the only way I could resist the temptation. Boy was I glad when that season was over. Now I'm glad that I did, and one day if you truly end this you will respect yourself because you did. Oh yeah, and that guy smelled sooooo good also and he tried to get so close to me but I was like Forrest Gump.
I also found out a year later that he was boning another parent of a kid he was coaching and their A was exposed and it was a big ole mess!! You don't need any more drama with all that you are going through with your DH. I know it's hard but find another way.
The Ending the Affair support board is a wonderful place to help support you if you are truly ready to end things.
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