A place that I can tell all......

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Registered: 04-03-2003
A place that I can tell all......
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Tue, 12-16-2003 - 12:23am
Finally, I found a place that I can dicuss my affair!! My husband and I separted the beginning of November. (The legal "stuff' is coming in January) My friend/coworker ( of three years)had been a great deal of emtional support for me the past few weeks. However, I found out that he did of "motives". He said that he was always interested in me, but when I started at the company and he found out that I was married. He knew I was "off limits". I always had a "thing" for him (nice looking and great with conversation) but because I'm married, I knew I could never "act" on it. My friend is not married but he is in a long relationship (2 years). After our last business trip this summer, I was having intimate dreams and fantisies and he was in all of them and they seemed very real !! Anyways, one day after a lunch meeting the subject of these dreams come up. Needless to say, he's been having them too !! For a month we started sharing our thoughts and stoled a secret kiss when possible. After that month, we started meeting for pleasure lunches. Well, after my husband and I seperated, my friend and I met for a weekend away.



MY OH MY, talk about a sleepless weekend and total relaxed state of mind !!!! Because of our work situation and relationships, we have to keep things "undercover" ( can't say I mind, we try to get together once a week and have our way with each other) wink,wink Since I am getting divorced and have children, we know we have to "play it safe" until all the "issues" are settled in court and between my husband. He ,on the other hand, is being pressured (everyone from her work and his work are wanting to know when he's going to ask her to marry him) Anyways, we just shared a very intimate night together and he shared his feelings, wants and desires for me. Then we made love a few times that night and then in the shower before I left.

WOW , that felt good to finally share my affair with others. I haven't shared this with ANYONE until tonight....SO thanks for letting me tell my "story" and hope to stay intouch with everyone........

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Registered: 09-22-2003
Tue, 12-16-2003 - 12:33am
Welcome to the board msjones. You'll find that you get much needed support on this board. I myself only found this board about four months ago, and it's great finally having a place to vent. I also met MM at work, and we've been together almost five years. We have the greatest relationship together, and hopefully on day, we'll be together.