Played for a fool ! Want revenge..advice
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Played for a fool ! Want revenge..advice
| Tue, 03-02-2004 - 1:07pm |
Well if u read my previous posts u know that the MM was having doubts.. I been sympathetic to his needs.. giving him time.. this A been going on since October.. I thought we were friends as well.. any way I just found out today from a reliable source that the reason for his distance and doubts is that there is another woman in the picture!!!!!! OOOO Im sooooo MAD!!! I dont care that there is another woman, but I refuse to be the fool!!!! All his Im not sure if i can do this and all that crap!!! I really just am the vengeful type and I soooo want to make his life miserable right now and crash his world!!!!! I know its not very adult of me, but still and all i want him to feel like the jerk I fee like right now!!!!! SO ladies what would you all do if this were u ?!?!! let it go , revenge, confrontation?.. I need some objective opinions cause Im on the verge of calling the wife right now!!!.. JAM

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Hope you feel better soon.
Lucky
I'm not saying this just because I'm a man. Women can be just as dirty as men. Someday ask me about the inside of a house I painted just before the new boyfriend moved in.
Once I had a serious b/f (of 2 years) cheat on me with not only his ex but MY sister, too. Fortunately, it was a long distance R and he didn't call me for about 9 months. When he did, I sent pics of a baby my friend just had (she was in on it) and told him it was his. I even made him pay child support (just for one month) before I told him! Revenge was sweet!
I am sorry to hear this ;-( I know right now you feel very mad and upset . It doesn't feel good to be played BUT you need to step back a second and control your emotions .
You don't want to stoop to his level . Just because he is a jerk you don't want to behave like that too .
Revenge will get you no where . Don't you believe in Karma ? Do not worry the universe/God will take care of things don't take it into your own hands . You don't want to do something hasty and maybe regret later. Be the bigger person !
What I would do is first really find out if your source is really reliable and if it is really true that there is another W in the picture . If you know for sure just tell him straight up that you know what is up ! and if he thought he could play you and that you would never find out well he was wrong . tell him how disappointed you are in him ( ok not that it matters to him ) that you thought he was a better person then that , but now you see he isn't and that you are glad you found out now before a longer time would have passed and you would hurt even more .
Tell him next time he shouldn't be a coward and play with peoples emotions . Just be honest and upfront .........but wait your expecting honesty from a man who lies and cheats on his wife ?? ;-)
Personally after something like this any feelings I may have had for the man would go away in a minute . Move on with your life , forget about him you deserve better then that . I am sure in the long run you will have a happy life and he will get his . Hugs ViperDiva
xoxo ViperDiva
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