Played for a fool ! Want revenge..advice
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Played for a fool ! Want revenge..advice
| Tue, 03-02-2004 - 1:07pm |
Well if u read my previous posts u know that the MM was having doubts.. I been sympathetic to his needs.. giving him time.. this A been going on since October.. I thought we were friends as well.. any way I just found out today from a reliable source that the reason for his distance and doubts is that there is another woman in the picture!!!!!! OOOO Im sooooo MAD!!! I dont care that there is another woman, but I refuse to be the fool!!!! All his Im not sure if i can do this and all that crap!!! I really just am the vengeful type and I soooo want to make his life miserable right now and crash his world!!!!! I know its not very adult of me, but still and all i want him to feel like the jerk I fee like right now!!!!! SO ladies what would you all do if this were u ?!?!! let it go , revenge, confrontation?.. I need some objective opinions cause Im on the verge of calling the wife right now!!!.. JAM

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CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
Well, lets just pretened like you know that there is another woman for sure.... To get him really heated would be to actully meet this woman and become good friends with her! Pretending that you had no idea that the woman you just met and your man were even seeing each other! That way you can be close to the enemy AND get back and your guy. Once you gain the womans trust, there's no telling how much damage you could do!! Just always remember to play it safe-- (its the guy we want hurting here!)
If what you did is called love then your hate must be truly interesting to behold.
If MM is such a pain then Dump him, it's your fault if you stay in such a bad situation no one is forcing you to stay, but you are trying to force him to stay with you(can you say fatel attraction).
The three of you sound like you have a wonderfull dynamic going, do yourself a favor and exit stage left.
>>>"""Let me ask you this mefreenow. I am including myself in this too, aren't you pathetic too, arn't you messing with another womans man? Whats wrong with us to have so little self esteem that we are second in the one we love lives? As the old saying goes...hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me, well shame on me. ">>>
This part actualy made sense, I put up with some SH*T, but dumped his lieing *SS, that was the first step to dealing with the SELF ESTEEM problem.
The number one rule in a EMA is if the pain out weights what your getting from it then it's time to leave, it sounds like it's time to leave when your hurting so badly you start doing crazy stuff.
adios
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