Playing Hard to Get???

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Registered: 06-27-2010
Playing Hard to Get???
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Thu, 07-01-2010 - 12:39pm

I was reading thru a thread, and someone mentioned that it's sometimes not good to be too available to AP bc they love the chase (paraphrasing).

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Registered: 12-03-2009
Thu, 07-01-2010 - 1:09pm

I learned to play the non-response game.

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Registered: 05-21-2010
Thu, 07-01-2010 - 5:11pm

I totally need to remember to delay response or not be the first to text him all the time! I just get such a high from receiving a message back...and if I don't get a text from him...well...I sit there with squirrels running all over my head and go crazy:-)))


With this new one, I am trying to hold back and definitely have learned from the first one. I will not be all needy...at least I will try not to be.

I know that women and men are completely different. It has certainly helped me to read so many stories on here about how many people go through the same experiences...and getting a mans view on things is very helpful sometimes!


I know he thinks about me a lot...he just doesn't feel the need to send me a text and tell me he's thinking about me! Wish he would though:-)

LouLou
LouLou
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Registered: 06-08-2010
Thu, 07-01-2010 - 5:26pm
I better start playing this game if I want some control in my A. So far I have been way to available for my AP. He is the one who texts me first (because of his kids and DW being around him) and I always respond right away. If he wants to meet I never say no. So if you think about it I am always there for him and he is not so much there for me. But today I did something different
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 07-01-2010 - 11:49pm
Do I respond right away?

anotherseyes