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Please be honest should I be the one
| Tue, 05-04-2010 - 1:57pm |
Hi, all
Due to our living arrangement AP and I
| Tue, 05-04-2010 - 1:57pm |
Hi, all
Due to our living arrangement AP and I
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First off, keep AP out of your marital home. Having him over there is just a disaster waiting to happen. I didn't allow AP/BF anywhere near my home until things were ending with my H. You're asking for trouble doing that.
As for the hotel room costs - AP/BF and I used to split the costs. We get paid on opposite weeks - so one week he would pay and the next week I would pay. We ALWAYS paid in cash - no debit/credit cards which can be tracked later. I felt that since we were both going to the room to be together, it was only fair for us to share the costs of the hotel room. If you think you can get the money out an account without your H finding out - I think it would be fair for you to help out with that cost.
Good call about not letting him come to your house!
anotherseyes
Finally someone talking my language..
He know that I am currently unemployed been unemployed for over a year. (I am currently
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You've got a lot of choices. If getting out of bed in the morning is a chore and you're not smiling on a regular basis, try another choice. ~Steven D. Woodhull
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You've
Just imaging him coming over to my home and getting caught give me chills up my spine. No, way in __ would I allowed this. He is currently running his own business and I cannot believe he does not have any money.
I think you just hit on the right response - tell him you will see him when you are employed and can split the cost.
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