Please be honest should I be the one

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Please be honest should I be the one
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Tue, 05-04-2010 - 1:57pm

Hi, all


Due to our living arrangement AP and I

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iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 3:17pm

I agree !

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2008
Wed, 05-05-2010 - 10:33pm

Hi Lady,


A real man should ALWAYS be the MAN in the relationship. A 'man' wouldnt expect his woman to pay for anything.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-01-2010
Thu, 05-06-2010 - 8:07am

My guy always paid for everything--oceanfront hotel room, dinner, drinks, champagne for the room. I always came with

Oct. 12, 2010 -- began my personal search and rescue mission.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Thu, 05-06-2010 - 11:58am

My ex-ap was so giving to me. . Now, this bum wants me to pay for hotel. I am not 100 year old that no man look at. I find it degrading ..


He still have not call me but when he does I will ask him, "Who the man in this relationship"? I will make it clear to him that I will never pay for a hotel and when I am working, I will not mind paying sometime for dinner or
movie but hotels stay is on him.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Thu, 05-06-2010 - 12:11pm
In all my years I have never ever paid for a room. Back when my dh were dating he lived with his mom and he always, always used to pay for everything. Then we got married and he still paid for everything. He been a good provider. After six-teen years of marriage I cheated on him last year for the first time. My ex-ap was a controlling freak but he was so, so giving. He even gave me 700.00 for me to spent on a trip I took last year.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-06-2008
Thu, 05-06-2010 - 8:31pm

I'm loving your new attitude!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Fri, 05-07-2010 - 10:53am

Yesterday, I text him with the question "Who is the man in this relationship"?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2009
Fri, 05-07-2010 - 8:49pm

Why do you even text or talk to him. Obviously he doesn't see much value in your relationship if he expects you to be that desperate to have sex with him AND to pay for the hotel room - I can't believe he basically threw you an ultimatums. You really need to get some self-respect here and draw a line with him. My x wouldn't let me spend a cent on him, he paid for everything - hotels, champagne, lunches, dinners, movies, you name it. I dumped him all the same, but it's a different story.

XOXO
Gone

**Bloodied but unbowed**
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2010
Sun, 05-09-2010 - 12:13pm

Last night he call me and he did not mention any of my text. As we kept talking, he ask me when will I be able to see him ?

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