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Please help!!!
| Fri, 08-22-2008 - 9:30am |
Okay so here is the problem. I have been having an emotional affair for about 4 months now. It is with a co-worker. We started out as very good friends, then we started texting each other pics and talking alot through texts.

To be honest, it sounds like he is trying to stay true to his wife and marriage. I'm wondering if you've read the book, "He's just not that into you". One of the rules is that he's just not that into you if he's married to someone else. Even if he is not happy in his marriage, it sounds like he is not ready to walk away at this point.
Another point in the book is that if a man is not calling you, it's because he's not thinking about you. I know that's a hard pill to swallow, but I think once all women realize how true it is, we will be much better off. He's not initiating contact and he's not replying to your texts. I think that's a pretty good indication of his feelings. Please walk away. You deserve someone who will love you and ONLY you. Don't sell yourself short.