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| Thu, 11-26-2009 - 1:04pm |
Remember me girls please help his DW found out about us on Tuesday evening and I have been an emotional wreck ever since. I asked him how he felt about this and he said he hates her and just wants to be able to see his kids.She has not confronted me yet but i know its coming I'm sure she is not aware of how long this has been going on.Friday (tommorrow is five years) what am i going to do I can't eat sleep or function like a normal person. He hasn't called me b/c he is home with her today and her sister came down which is odd b/c at the beginning of the week there was no mention of her sister coming down at all.OMG my womans intuition tells me he told her about us but I hope not I really don't want to go through a nasty scene with her or a court room.Five years of cells phone records and she seen explicit text from his phone to my phone and vise versa.HELP!

Hey...
I can tell from your post that you feel very upset and scared.
Does she know where you live? Are you married too? Single?
I hope you'll find out soon what exactly is going on. Can't you
text him or anything? Hm I guess not, because she apparently saw a text from you?
I wish I could help you. Can't you go somewhere and try to get your mind off it? What is it that you fear so much about her? Are you afraid she'll come after you?
Why would you have to see her in a court room?
It's okay, I don't think she can do anything to you. This is between her and her husband.
Hugs
htgo
Hi,
I'm sorry you're faced with this. =(
It is an emotional wreck, and I've btdt 3 times this year. Have faith, and as hard as it sounds, be patient and wait for him to contact you. For all you know, he might have conquered up a lie to cover up, and didn't throw you under the bus. Do not answer her phone calls, or text messages. Be very careful when answering your phone, walking out of your house, etc... just be on the cautious side of things.
Please keep us posted, we're here for you!
NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No N
wow, im sorry for what you are going through. my OM's wife found about us too, about me. And its been over a year now and I still wait, with some anxiety ,about her doing something to me, not physically, but damaging to me and my family. My OM did reassure me that he would keep me safe and did everything in his power to protect me. So far so good. But you never know what the wife will do.
I think youre letting your mind work overtime, just try to wait and be patient and wait to hear from him. Give him time to figure things out. Just becasue she knows about you doesnt mean she will do anything to you. Her anger will be directed
Whatever you do, do NOT, I repeat, do NOT under any circumstances text him back.
NC since Dec. 9th 2009
No Contact = No N
Yes, I agree with Ilostagain, she might try to set up some kind of trap for you by pretending to be her H texting you.
Please don't worry too much, okay? I know you are going to miss him ,but for now we just have to make sure that she will not drag you into court.
But she probably won't.
I hope you'll know some more soon
Hugs