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Please help me interpret this
| Sun, 05-10-2009 - 1:37am |
Hi, I am posting again in hopes of getting some more insight on my situation. As you all know, there are very few if any people someone in an A or about to start an A can talk to about it.

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because its my OPINION..that I am completely entitled to have........that is why its okay.
Have a nice day!
When men are interested, they go for it, and if things are bad at home, they usually froth over about how sexless and empty their marriages are. (And even when they're not). That he can go a year and a half without speaking to you and not whine about how terrible his wife is after all the hints you've handed out, tells me he's probably pretty satisfied with his life. As others have mentioned, people in professions that see other people when their lives are in turmoil get misdirected affection all the time. Hate to say it, but he can probably give you a list a mile long of others that have come before you. .....Which is probably why he's doing nothing. He's probably being partly polite and partly enjoying the attention you are giving him. Most men would be flattered and reciprocate a little.
I also agree with Clarity. I think he decided to clean his behavior up after your meltdown. Guys that want more don't respond with "That's great" when a woman tells them they want to pursue a friendship. They start fishing around to see how soon they can get it physical. Why not just woman-up and be direct? For someone who "needs" him to make the first move, you sure are manipulating things to make that happen. What's the difference?
And you
I never called anyone names.
I got the insults and finger pointing and nastiness from several of the people in this community.
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