So sorry about your situation. I think you have to look not at what he says but at what he does. If he's avoiding you (could call you but doesn't) then it sounds like he's siding with W. Either that or trying to figure out how to stay on the fence. Lot of fence sitters / cake eaters out there. Sounds like W is going to make sure he can't stay up there. Hope he falls over on your side if you really want him. Just my .02
You lost your job over your affair? Your ex-boss does not know which one to be with?
It sounds that for now, it does neither of you any good to continue contact. He's trying to figure things out and deal with the aftermath of him being thrown out. You don't have a job.
You need to focus on supporting yourself financially and emotionally. He needs to sort through the drama and the changes.
So sorry about your situation. I think you have to look not at what he says but at what he does. If he's avoiding you (could call you but doesn't) then it sounds like he's siding with W. Either that or trying to figure out how to stay on the fence. Lot of fence sitters / cake eaters out there. Sounds like W is going to make sure he can't stay up there. Hope he falls over on your side if you really want him. Just my .02
-jana
You lost your job over your affair? Your ex-boss does not know which one to be with?
It sounds that for now, it does neither of you any good to continue contact. He's trying to figure things out and deal with the aftermath of him being thrown out. You don't have a job.
You need to focus on supporting yourself financially and emotionally. He needs to sort through the drama and the changes.
I always hate to give others false hope because I don't know the future for you any better then you know it.
You were right.