Pls indulge me one last time.....???
Find a Conversation
Pls indulge me one last time.....???
| Thu, 05-27-2004 - 8:34pm |
I sent MM email yesterday ( we were emailing all day and I have a 'story' for him read other posts to see what I am talkig about).... anyhow- my last email I sent was at 2:00pm yesterday and I have heard nothing back. He seemed fine to see me so I am puzzled by this.
So, do I
1. Assume he will meet me and show up?
2. Assume he will not meet me (blowing me off) since he did not respond yet?
I know some will say, contact him and just find out for surf- but I don't want to. Insecure I guess....
TELL ME YOUR GUT ON THIS GUYS AND DOLLS.
Thx.
V.
PS: Here is a quote that I read on the "understanding the opposite sex" board. What do you all think???
"Men fall in love in the spaces" is a quote that is pretty much true about the way men's minds work."

Pages
Don't know if this helps...but hang in there!!
Dusty
Dear.... My thoughts are as they were yesterday honey! One will always believe whatever one repeats to one's self. What one keeps telling ourselves over and over in our heads has this awesome power to overcome any negative power. It usually determines the behavior that defines who we are. Although, every moring you and I have a "choice" as to the direction this voice within will take us. Keep positive thoughts about yourself and keep repeating them until they affirmed and you feel them. Really feel them and feel good about yourself.
It's as easy to affirm our self-worth with positive messages as it is to tear ourselves down with negative ones. And yet, many times we fall so easily into negative patterns of thought. Like you keep doing with over analizing the not answered calls, emails.....
Keep teling yourself over and over what you already know V- You are a full of love, and able to give someone "deserving of love" that love in return! Don't go and just wait for him to show for lunch unless you've talked to him to confirm. It would be just awful if he didn't show.
Good luck- Warm wishes,
Jen
If it is really bugging you and you do not want to just not show up for fear he won't.. then confirm it whatever way you want to. You have a right to know if he is planning on coming or not and even if he got your email.
good luck
dd
Dusty
If I do not hear from him - I will not go. It will kill me, but make me stronger in the end. (right?)
What kills me is that he seemed excited to see me and now this NC.... even a friend would confirm one way or the other.
Anyways, I'm almost done with him in my heart of heart, I know its very near to the end for me.
Dusty
Not all men think like we do... "It only takes 2 minutes to pick the phone up and call!", or shoot out a quick email.
Hang in there!
jen
Pages