Points

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Registered: 10-20-2007
Points
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Sat, 10-31-2009 - 8:16pm

Hi everyone!


My AP and I are working on coming up with a list of things he can do to earn points with me, so eventually he can redeem them, like

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-21-2009
In reply to: realitysucks0320
Sun, 11-01-2009 - 1:30am

What would be the prize for redeeming points? Like him calling you on time would equal to bj?

And why trolls are always rampant on weekends?

**Bloodied but unbowed**
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Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: realitysucks0320
Mon, 11-02-2009 - 10:10am

I'm also curious about what he can redeem the points for?

I would include points for any gesture that made me feel "cared for". A little e-mail card, or even an e-mail saying he was thinking of me, if he didn't have time to send more. A gesture that shows he's actually listening when I talk - even his mentioning or asking about something I brought up a few days ago would score points with me LOL. It's a good "positive reinforcement" tool.

BTW there are more trolls on the weekend because they know that the people who are allowed to delete posts are generally not here on the weekend.

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