In an A with police officer

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Registered: 05-08-2009
In an A with police officer
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Fri, 05-29-2009 - 8:09pm

Hi and Happy Friday everyone, Just wondering, Is anyone here in an A with a police officer or someone in a related career ?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2006
Fri, 05-29-2009 - 9:12pm

Hi MomMichelle


I was involved in an A with a police officer for 6 yrs. He was 13 yrs older than me. It started in 2001 when I was roughly 28 yrs old.


We are still friends, nothing more, and do talk on a regular basis.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-05-2007
Fri, 05-29-2009 - 10:13pm

That would be me too. Was involved in an A (and IRL relationship after) with a police officer for five years.

What notes do you want to compare...lol...

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2009
Fri, 05-29-2009 - 11:14pm
Well, I guess I don't have any notes to compare quite yet!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2006
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 12:46am

MM,


Like you I do not like to generalize, that said:


I have been in emergency medicine for about 15 yrs with a 2 YR law enforcement/dispatching stint. I have known and still work very closely with police officers. Do they have a higher infidelity rate? I have to say most of them, yes, they do. I think the "job" attracts A type and narcissistic personalities. They hold odd hours, know how to be devious, and know how to concoct good alibis.


Have fun with whatever you are going to or are currently undertaking. Don't expect much from him, esp leaving his wife. Also, don't think you are his first or his only one.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 3:12pm
What happen to your interest in your divorce lawyer?




You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-30-2009
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 3:52pm
A police officer?? Ohhhh, that's hot! Enjoy! :)
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2007
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 4:06pm

I guess I am kinda confused about your interest in this board.


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2009
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 9:49pm

Colorrunner, yes that's what I am looking for, support and advice on how these things, affairs, FWB's or whatever you call them, how they usually start,

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-24-2005
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 10:38pm

No, you are not out of line...you are in the right place :)


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-08-2009
Sat, 05-30-2009 - 11:31pm

Clarity, Thank you. I did and do have something for my attorney and he had said something a month or so ago about us meeting to eat after this case is closed ( the case I am referring to is that I have taken my ex-H back to court to help pay a portion of my son's college tution).

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