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possible to keep it secret forever?
| Tue, 01-27-2004 - 4:59pm |
I need some reassurance - desperatly!
I just started an EMA and want to know from those who are more experienced - Is it possible for me to keep this a secret or am I kidding myself? I am living somewhere temporarily and feel more free to explore myself here. I know I am not starting something very long term. My OM had made that clear also. It is supposed to be about the sex and I can keep it that way if I am careful. I plan on doing this and walking away when it is time to move or else much sooner when the excitement wears off. Am I an idiot for thinking that this is possible? I do value my marriage and do not plan on ruining it. Can I do this or am I kidding myself? I believe I can do this but I would love to hear from some women (or men) who have been able to keep their EMA a secret and have not ruined their marriage. This is all about me - I am so totally selfish right now and I feel like I need this. Any wisdom out there? My OM is very clear on not starting something permanent also. We both have too much to lose. I really need some reassurance or dire warnings. It is still early for me and I can avoid some heartache if it is unavoidable!
Thanks. I'm glad I have somewhere safe to talk and ask advice.
I just started an EMA and want to know from those who are more experienced - Is it possible for me to keep this a secret or am I kidding myself? I am living somewhere temporarily and feel more free to explore myself here. I know I am not starting something very long term. My OM had made that clear also. It is supposed to be about the sex and I can keep it that way if I am careful. I plan on doing this and walking away when it is time to move or else much sooner when the excitement wears off. Am I an idiot for thinking that this is possible? I do value my marriage and do not plan on ruining it. Can I do this or am I kidding myself? I believe I can do this but I would love to hear from some women (or men) who have been able to keep their EMA a secret and have not ruined their marriage. This is all about me - I am so totally selfish right now and I feel like I need this. Any wisdom out there? My OM is very clear on not starting something permanent also. We both have too much to lose. I really need some reassurance or dire warnings. It is still early for me and I can avoid some heartache if it is unavoidable!
Thanks. I'm glad I have somewhere safe to talk and ask advice.

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Again - I'm thankful for having a place to discuss this!
Dusty
hey lazyone -- welcome to the board and you sure came to the right place with your situation!
you are FWB (friends with benefits) for the sex and both you and MM do not want to go further emotionally right?
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
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