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| Wed, 02-18-2004 - 9:30am |
This may be a little late but, believe it or not, I've been avoiding MM since Thursday the 12th. I know I can only put this off so long, so I thought I'd ask those of you who have dealt with this already this week for your advice. A big part of the reason I'm avoiding MM is that I just can't bear to listen to how his weekend was. The later it gets in the week, I guess the less likely it is we'll actually discuss it, but I want to be prepared just in case it comes up. Did any of your MMs talk about their weekend and what they did for V-day? Honestly, just hearing about what they ate, what they gave each other, etc., makes me want to puke. (I already heard most of this Wednesday and Thursday of last week, which is why I started staying away!) But another issue is that I can't very well discuss MY weekend when I'm asking him not to. Anyway...how did you all handle it? Do you have agreements not to discuss it or are other people just better at handling the jealousy than I am? The further I fall for this guy, the harder it gets to hear...

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Mitzy
Smile, give it time, do not ask or talk about the weekend if it makes you uncomfortable. There is really no reason to know. BUT the faster you accept that he may enjoy his DW too, then it will go easier for your head.
I am not good at giving advice, and I have not read your whole life on the board, but take it easy, remember, keep it simple.. really simple, minute by minute. do not let it eat you up, as it is doing...
Mitzy
*sigh* hang in there.
But when we had time together yesterday, he gave me a little item, something I asked him for, just a personal item but we use in our times together. It wasn't really for Valentine's Day. But he is nice that way. If there is something I want for our times together, he will get it for me.
I know he said to me before, if he worked at my office, he'd be dropping papers all around at my desk just to be near me!!
But that must be heartbreaking, seeing the W come in to meet him for lunch. Because obviously then things are not as bad as what they lead you to believe. I don't even know what MM's wife looks like, nor do I want to know. I think its better for me that way. And he doesn't ask me alot of details on my H either. Once in a while we get nosy about each other's life, but that's not often.
My MM says he's got no sex life with the W, but I know there is affection/love there anyways, and if I had to witness it, I would be upset I think. Take care,
Dusty
Also - I work in a remote part of the building (near the entrance) and he works all the way at the other end of the building - I do make *special* trips to the "other" copier just to see him - the other day the stupid thing was broken and he was walking by and stopped to help me and the electricity was out of this world, and I don't mean to the copier!! - I could hardly stand - but usually we're ok when we're around each other....
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