Pregnant from Affair - Anyone else?
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Pregnant from Affair - Anyone else?
| Fri, 02-27-2004 - 1:07pm |
I have not been on this board in about 2 months. Last time I was on here, I was asking about affairs, as I had just started one. I am still involved in the affair and just this morning took a pregnancy test and it came back positive. I am sure it is correct as I am late and have some symptoms. My husband is unable to have children, so there is no getting around the fact that he will know I was with someone else. I feel sick to my stomach. I am at a loss as to what to do. I won't have an abortion, so I'm definitly having it. I love my husband and my om also. On one hand I think I should end the affair, and not tell the om about my pregnancy and just deal with my husband. Part of me wants to tell my om since it is his child (he is single). I have wanted a baby for as long as I can remember, but not like this. Previous to my affair, my husband and I had been having fertility treatments done, but have been unsucessful so far. I was thinking about maybe telling my husband that I want to resume fertility treatments (he doesn't go with me to the doctors appointments anymore) and then pretend the pregnancy resulted from that. That is such a huge lie though. I don't know what to do. Anyone else in a similar situation or have any advice?

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Hi Chris,
I totally agree with what everyone has had to say... you need to tell DH and OM... and you need to be open and honest with them both.
Sweet
Co-Community Leader My
hang in there chris.
CL-Gurlfriend50
Co-CL of My Affair Support Board
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