Princess......I read it

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Princess......I read it
Fri, 03-28-2003 - 5:26pm
Heres my response. Honey, I went through that with my mm where I thought I was getting too emotionally involved because he backed off whenever I got close. 2 very smart women on here (molly and meow) told me to tell him how he was making me feel. I told him simply that I deserved respect from him and that I would not be treated like his mistress. I also said that if I couldn't have what I wanted out of our relationship, I was going to have to walk away because I wasn't going to risk my m and be treated like a mistress. I told him that we can stay where we are now but feel free to express our emotions for each other and that he should not be afraid of what he is feeling for me. I emailed this to him so I would not have to face him. Honey, he called me 10 seconds after reading it. It was so fast I was amazed. I think you will be surprised if you make him respect and love you. Don't give him a choice. You'll run the risk of losing him butyou'll be much happier in the long run. Remember that you are a part of his life and should be a very important part of it. You are a special person and deserve to be treated with dignity. Men will fall at your knees if they really love you when you lay down the law. LOL.....Hooked