Punish him?
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Punish him?
| Wed, 05-05-2004 - 9:00pm |
I rarely get jealous of OMW, but today we had a conversation in which I think he talked about her unnecessarily. My first reaction is to punish him by having NC for a few days: am I being a baby or playing games? Any thoughts?

The punishing thing doesn't work if you really love him. Take it from me. I never go that route. It hurts me than it does him....LOL. I think its best to say it out loud that you did not appreciate the way he talked about the other woman.
Juliet
For everytime my MM talked about his wife if I were to punish him, I would be investing in whips and chains, and not in the fun way. Sometimes we have to decipher their words and read between the lines, as hard as it is not to get angered or upset. My MM's venting on his W, whether positive or negative, opens windows I do not have to. There is always information to extract. Listen with your ears, not your heart. You will walk away with much useful info that you will never have to ask. Take care.
R2R