Q answered and u were all right

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Registered: 04-17-2009
Q answered and u were all right
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Mon, 04-20-2009 - 7:53pm

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Registered: 06-13-2006
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 9:03am

Kacee,


No one is going to learn from your screw up just as you did not learn from the several posts that were shared with you when you asked if going to APs house was crossing the line...


Please, do not make a habit of going to his house. I know you are going to do what you want, you already proved that; but Kacee, you are playing with fire. Its only a matter of time before you get burned. You said we were right when we told you not to go, please see how right I am in saying not to keep going. I did keep going, it wasn't the first time or the tenth time I was at APs house that we got busted; it was more like the 30th time I was there that we got caught. Things get comfy, seem safe: "hey we haven't been caught yet", and we grow complacent with the reality of what we are doing. All it takes in one nosey neighbor, one school skipping high school daughter, one sick spouse, a family member dropping by...and your lives are shattered.


Think you felt bad after you left last week? Try getting caught in the act. There's no words for what you will feel then. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, I didn't want to hear this kind of stuff before I got caught either. I wasn't going to get caught, hell none of us are ever going to get caught, right? But like alot of us, you will get caught too if you continue bringing the A into either of your homes. Read my D-Day story if you like in the D-Day folder.

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Registered: 04-21-2009
Tue, 04-21-2009 - 11:20am
Hello!
I am new here.I and my other man are also planning to go all the way ,just too much of build up and kissing doesnt help any more!!makes us want even more.Thanks for this post.I would talk to my other man about this and not choosing either of our homes to do it ( we both are married but my husband travels a lot).
thanks again for the advice.