Q for those of you with Single AP
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Q for those of you with Single AP
| Mon, 01-04-2010 - 7:37pm |
Did he at any time ever back away? Seem nervous or act like he didn't want to get too involved? The guy I liked and was having a somewhat AP with (know this makes no sense) chased me and when he got me, he ran. He came back but then once we had sex, talked a bit but now nothing. We also live in different states but I can see him in a month if I want to (visually). I've asked what he wants but he doesn't answer. He isn't doing this to be mean. I just do not understand why he bothered to chase me if he had no intention of following through. Last time we were together we talked and he said our FWB sounded really good and he seemed very into it. I do not believe he is seeing anyone and he is not a player. When we had sex I was shocked as he seemed a bit inexperienced for his age and he couldn't ask a simple thing about me having an orgasm. Kept saying "did you..............you know." I have not heard from him in awhile and trying to decide whether to email him (we do not phone or text) or to wait till I get there and go visit him at work (he works in a bar/restaurant)which I normally do with a friend (how we met). It really bothers me that we cannot discuss it and I have been very easy going about it. I don't ask for anything but I did tell him I hate being ignored/blown off. I do not get it!! We get along very well, have great conversations and it seemed like it was the perfect set up for both of us. I miss talking to him and hate that I sit here and wonder and feel like I cannot even ask him. It really sucks. Anyone else have this problem?
Edited 1/4/2010 8:00 pm ET by nolove4me
Edited 1/4/2010 8:00 pm ET by nolove4me
