Once every couple of months - work, kids, money, etc... make it difficult to see each other more than that. Tried to work out once a month but our "real" lives just didn't want to cooperate. Would love more often - but honestly too risky - especially when have to come up with alibis for where I am for several hours.
I used to see x-ap several times/week, just casually like an hour or two at lunch or at the park and 1x/week for physical type encounters. And of course we chatted and texted everyday for I would say an hour or more. darn lot of time I spent!
I feel kind of lucky. I am SOW and my AP is married. I used to see him every single night, or 4X a week at night. Now, I have seen him EVERY Saturday night for a month, totaling 5 saturday nights in a row! =)
But this is still not enough because I get so jealous when I think of his wife. I can't help myself but feel possessive and jealous.
Once every couple of months - work, kids, money, etc... make it difficult to see each other more than that. Tried to work out once a month but our "real" lives just didn't want to cooperate. Would love more often - but honestly too risky - especially when have to come up with alibis for where I am for several hours.
Jdgirl
I feel kind of lucky. I am SOW and my AP is married. I used to see him every single night, or 4X a week at night. Now, I have seen him EVERY Saturday night for a month, totaling 5 saturday nights in a row! =)
But this is still not enough because I get so jealous when I think of his wife. I can't help myself but feel possessive and jealous.
Edited 5/9/2009 4:34 am ET by lostintransition
E-mails every day, (we work together- disaster I know!). Then a couple nights a week we go out.