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Registered: 05-04-2009
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Fri, 05-08-2009 - 7:31pm
AP wanted to see me every weekend however, if I do I will for sure get caught.
playing the fool..is never easy
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Registered: 10-23-2008
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 9:54pm

Once every couple of months - work, kids, money, etc... make it difficult to see each other more than that. Tried to work out once a month but our "real" lives just didn't want to cooperate. Would love more often - but honestly too risky - especially when have to come up with alibis for where I am for several hours.


Jdgirl

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Registered: 05-04-2009
Fri, 05-08-2009 - 10:30pm
Every couple of months..interesting.. That would work perfect for me.. AP also
playing the fool..is never easy
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Registered: 04-23-2009
Sat, 05-09-2009 - 1:25am
I used to see x-ap several times/week, just casually like an hour or two at lunch or at the park and 1x/week for physical type encounters. And of course we chatted and texted everyday for I would say an hour or more. darn lot of time I spent!
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Registered: 07-09-2008
Sat, 05-09-2009 - 4:33am

I feel kind of lucky. I am SOW and my AP is married. I used to see him every single night, or 4X a week at night. Now, I have seen him EVERY Saturday night for a month, totaling 5 saturday nights in a row! =) 

But this is still not enough because I get so jealous when I think of his wife. I can't help myself but feel possessive and jealous.




Edited 5/9/2009 4:34 am ET by lostintransition

 

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Registered: 10-23-2008
Sat, 05-09-2009 - 8:38am
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Registered: 08-05-2005
Sat, 05-09-2009 - 11:35pm
I see mine once a month, I use the girl's night out story.
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Registered: 04-25-2009
Sun, 05-10-2009 - 2:32pm

E-mails every day, (we work together- disaster I know!). Then a couple nights a week we go out.