Question about contact

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2004
Question about contact
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Thu, 09-04-2008 - 12:31pm

I am curious about how much contact everyone is having with their AP.


When we started it was pretty much everyday. That was impossible with both of us staying in our M.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-28-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 3:19pm
Yes...I am living this right now. Will probably end the A because of it.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2004
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 3:43pm

I have been thinking the same thing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 4:01pm
He emails me everyday and sometimes calls once a week and sometimes 3-4 days in a row.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-29-2004
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 4:07pm

I feel the same way .

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Thu, 09-04-2008 - 4:14pm
Yeah, looking at some of the posts I guess I'm luckier than I thought.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2003
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 1:20am

Hi addicted,

I'm sorry that you feel somehow cheapened by his offer to contribute to your phone bill. I would try not feel that way though if I were you. In my experience, my AP/BF pays for just about everything. The only thing he doesn't really do is buy me drinks at our local bar. We'd been together just a few months when he'd invited me to meet him at a local hotel, a not so cheap hotel by the way. I didn't even think to offer to contribute to the cost..he's the one who invited me, and he let me know the expense was his. My H found out about this tryst and really made me think about it though when he asked, why would he pay that kind of money to sleep with you? Now that made me feel cheap...for a second. I thought about it again later, and I've come to realize that he likes being able to do these things for us. We are going to a concert next week and he asked if I would mind putting the tickets on my credit card...I had no qualms about doing so, and as a matter of fact, I'm telling him he doesn't owe me a thing for them (I owe him a bit of money and the rest is my treat). He's suggested getting a hotel room for the night and that I don't mind letting him pay for. It's all going to work out in the end and I don't feel cheap for it. You really should try not to either. If they don't have a hang up about money, you shouldn't either. JMHO :)

benska

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2008
Fri, 09-05-2008 - 8:50am
So how long before he said the words ILY?