question about getting some items back
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question about getting some items back
| Thu, 03-11-2010 - 11:56am |
My AP and I right now as you know are nc. God its been 16 days. He has some things of mine at his house that iwould like back. A movie and my spare battery charger for my cell phone. Should I email him and tell him to drop them off at my job when I'm not there or drop them off in the mail or leave them on his front porch. I dk what to do. Thanks for all advice. I would even like my sheets back. I won't ask for them.
MoonUnit

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You've got a lot of choices. I
Movie? Can easily be replaced. Spare charger? You've got another one. Sheets? Why?
Move on, move on, move on.
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
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Moon, i think youre grasping at straws here. Your AP has gone NC with you while he figures out his life. This means that he is trying to work out what he wants and with you continually trying to get in touch with him one way or another, you arent giving him an opportunity to miss you. Youre making yourself a constant reminder that his M is ending and you are involved.
My advice would be to forget your unimportant stuff as it is easily replaceable. I know you shouldnt have to purchase new ones, but its not worth the hassle to maybe irritate him over a few measly dollar worth of goods.
Go to the healing library and do the 180. Its perfect for you right now as you can follow the advice and work on yourself. He is not with you right now so sitting around miserable isnt going to change that but when you start to get out and do things especially for yourself, not only will your mind be occupied temporarily on other things, but you wont appear so downtrodden and needy if/when you do bump into him. This appearance will remind him of the girl he fell for. Even if AP doesnt come around, you will have not sat around inert and you can pick up som sembalance of a new life.
Fake it till you make it. It really helps. It wont be instant relief but one step at a time and look after YOU.
Hugs.
SB.
i still do want my stuff back, but i will let it go.
MoonUnit
MoonUnit
Go on ebay and order a new charger - they're
I've been trying to catch up on things, but I'm not completely sure of your situation, so forgive me if my comments seem off-base.
If you (together and individually) are sincere about wanting to maintain no communication, then I'd suggest chalking those up as lost items and get replacements for yourself.
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