i think each situation is so very different based upon availabilities, job commitments, finances, # of children, spouse working, etc.... AP#1 and i saw each other about twice a month for three hours at a time, sometimes more sometimes less. emailed alot, talked about once a week, sometimes less. texted infrequently. Current AP and i, well... i just like having him there, and i am not looking to change my home life, and both he and i are uber careful! no contact after business hours, no contact on weekends. no texts. no surprise phone calls. there are so many ways to get caught, and we each would be devastated if we ever were. we see each other about once a month, but am realizing this summer that b/c we have children/spouses on break from school, it will be 3 months on august 22 since i have seen him last. ugh! do i like that? not so much. but can i coordinate more and endure the stress of more visits whilst summer time activities are revved up for the family? i can not. amazingly, he understands this too. when school starts again, we have high hopes. sometimes an A has to be treated like a long-distance relationship, i am slowly learning. good luck with it all. how often do u get to see your special person, your marriage supplement? ;)
we try to meet once a month.. sometimes that ends up being two months.. we email or talk most weekdays.. weekends are more sketchy due to family time..
Hi Carmelabeni,
Welcome to MAS!
AP & I work for the same company and live about 10 minutes away from each other so
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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welcome!
Up until last friday (me and my AP had a arguement)...so there is no normal right now.....
we try to meet once a month.. sometimes that ends up being two months.. we email or talk most weekdays.. weekends are more sketchy due to family time..
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