Question for all the MW's on this board
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Question for all the MW's on this board
| Thu, 07-31-2003 - 2:35pm |
Ok--this is for all the married females out there. Whether you have a MM or OM please answer these questions. I'm curious!
1. How many times a month do you see your MM/OM?
2. During these times you see him, do you always have sex? Or just sometimes?
3. Is your EMA about only sex, or is there love involved?
4. If you MM wanted you to leave your M and he would leave his, would you?
5. Does your MM/OM tell you that he loves you?
6. Do you feel guilty when you are around your H?
7. Are you in an unhappy marriage, and in the EMA for love/relationship, OR are you just in the EMA for sex/flirty fun?
8. If you are still in your marriage, what reasons do you have for staying?

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2. During these times you see him, do you always have sex? Or just sometimes? Sometimes
3. Is your EMA about only sex, or is there love involved? I think it started purely physical and has grown, for both of us, into much more
4. If you MM wanted you to leave your M and he would leave his, would you? We have both stated that we wouldn't do this until our kids were older. So it is not even an option right now.
5. Does your MM/OM tell you that he loves you? No - he just shows me. He will tell me how much he cares for me, though.
6. Do you feel guilty when you are around your H? Not really guilty, just afraid that I have to be on my toes not to get caught. Like I am always afraid that he will smell MM or something!
7. Are you in an unhappy marriage, and in the EMA for love/relationship, OR are you just in the EMA for sex/flirty fun? Not an unhappy marriage... but my H does smother me. I get both sex/fun and love/support from my MM.
8. If you are still in your marriage, what reasons do you have for staying?
I do love my H and he is a wonderful man.. plus we have a child.. so I don't want to break up a family.
2. During these times you see him, do you always have sex? Or just sometimes? most of the time atleast oral
3. Is your EMA about only sex, or is there love involved? love
4. If you MM wanted you to leave your M and he would leave his, would you? No
5. Does your MM/OM tell you that he loves you? occassionally
6. Do you feel guilty when you are around your H? No
7. Are you in an unhappy marriage, and in the EMA for love/relationship, OR are you just in the EMA for sex/flirty fun? happily married in EMA for love and fun
8. If you are still in your marriage, what reasons do you have for staying? In love with my DH and couldn't have a more perfect husband
- 5 days a week - sometimes more.
2. During these times you see him, do you always have sex? Or just sometimes?
- not always - maybe once a week.
3. Is your EMA about only sex, or is there love involved?
- love involved.
4. If you MM wanted you to leave your M and he would leave his, would you?
- not sure
5. Does your MM/OM tell you that he loves you?
- yes
6. Do you feel guilty when you are around your H?
- sometimes
7. Are you in an unhappy marriage, and in the EMA for love/relationship, OR are you just in the EMA for sex/flirty fun?
-hard to say - I clearly was unhappy with aspects of my M that led to the A - MM and I had a friendship for 2 years prior to the A. At first it was fun and turned sexual 2 months into it.
8. If you are still in your marriage, what reasons do you have for staying?
- still in M - H is moving out soon - deciding on S or D.
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