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| Mon, 05-03-2004 - 2:31pm |
I'm looking for a little advise because I don't know what to do. My MM has been very busy at work, and I kow this, so I don't bug him. Thing is that the last two e-mails were iniciated(sp?) by me. I got a response, but they were very short and also very apologetic that he could not write more. It's been NC since then. (About two weeks) I miss him like crazy, but I don't want to be too pushy. Should I e-mail him, or wait for him to e-mail me. I just don't want to push him away. HELP!

same thing and have taken the advise from others on these
posts.. definately do not bug him.
Do let him contact you, I realize this somewhat makes
you feel used.....him using you when you are always
there and willing. I agree with being a little un-available.
I think men do like that, they know their woman is not
at their beck and call, I believe it also shows confidence,
and boston on this post had once told me that there is
nothing more attractive than a confident women to a man.
Well,Miss Confidence what do you think!! It has worked for
me, with the advise of boston and rain. I get nice e-mails
3-4 times a week now, before it was 1-2 a week.
Try it and let us now, be patient, he will e-mail you.
Button
not2sure... I have to agree with the others... don't email him... let him come to you!
Sweet
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Edited 10/1/2004 7:05 pm ET ET by sally289
Lets see how I am at the END of the week! UGH!
Staying strong!
deedee
I have left one voice mail today telling him to have a good
day and that I miss him. That was it. No e-mails yet this
week.beginning of the months are his billing period for
last months work.
I know when to back off and so far it is the best thing to do,
especially when I have noticed most of us speak with our
MM at work. There is alot of pressure on all of us at work
and endless emails and phone messages add to the stress.
So, be patient, and by the end of the week, the e-mails
should come roling around again and the phone calls.
Bunny