question for the long timers..
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question for the long timers..
| Tue, 04-27-2004 - 9:37am |
i am going to try to keep this from being a book so I will give you the readers digest version
Yesterday MM said he was trouble for me basically I took it as he was bad for me.
so my question is this, how do I prove to him that I am a big girl and capable of making my own decisions regarding this A?
I will also add that he is having a few problems at home with the W? I have been laying low to give him time to work those issues out by no pressure from me, keeping my opinions to myself etc.
Any words of wisdom?
Thanks
Sb

My first impression is that your MM is wanting some space so he said he was bad for you. This makes it seem like he is protecting you rather than telling you he needs to take a step back. He definitely needs to work on his issues at home and you are wise to give him this space. Just be there for him when he needs you and don't make a big deal out of proving to him you can handle things. He probably knows that you can. I just wonder if he can. Good luck with everything.
the way it is looking he cant handle it all.
but again thanks
SB
Seeburg
give him his space and do your best to distract yourself and keep busy. do whatever makes you happiest -- take a walk, read a book, go to the spa, retail therapy, cook, whatever works for you. make this break in the R time for you.
MM will be back in contact as soon as he doesn't feel guilty anymore and/or he wants the attention and affection you give him. they all come back....
life
Give him some space and sort things out in your own mind, too. It seems impossible but you will survive!!
thank you for responding to my post, i am grateful for the responses i have gotten, i have read alot of your posts and trust you opinion.
I am a little leary of posting all of my thoughts here, because i that he does read here and is also a member in the chat room, and the last thing i want is for him to think i am being whiney. hehehe
I do sense that he is pulling away, not calling like before or emailing as much, so do i keep emailing him or should I just wait it out or what?
I will add that I do trust him and I know that he loves me.And I love him and he knows it.
I was suppossed to go get my depo shot today but after I got in the parking lot at the Dr. office I backed out. So I am a little confused and scared of the unknown at point.
I have tried to get him to talk to him but he doesn't want to and I have not pushed.
THanks for letting me vent
SB
Seeburg