Question for Single OW on Valentines DAY

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Registered: 07-09-2003
Question for Single OW on Valentines DAY
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Mon, 02-16-2004 - 12:16pm
So like myself, how many of you single OW in this A with MM spent Valentines Day alone? How many of you got a special card? Got flowers, how about a phone call?? How did you deal with knowing he was romancing his W? Mine claims he was alone with his 2 kids, yeah right, he did call me numerous times, but everytime I called him how conveneient he did not pick up. Bad enough he is M but then he acts like am stupid enough to believe that he is not with his wife on Valentines Day. Oh yea I got my PAYOFF, he came over got a piece and left money for me to get something, I would have rather had HIS company on the special day then his money that made me feel like a whore, but I suppose it was better than nothing. I will notbe alone next Valentines Day while he with spoiling his wife this one really made me realize how unimportant I am!

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Registered: 02-15-2004
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 2:37am
OK, but how about a little sympathy for us MW who spent the evening with our H, who has a symbiotic relationship with the remote control? Knowing that if we could have been with the OM instead, we'd have been treated to a romantic dinner, dancing, and a night of passion...
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Registered: 02-17-2004
Tue, 02-17-2004 - 10:40am
sounds like he's just using you when it's convenient for him. Then, he's not there when you need him. Yes, he's romancing his wife. That's part of his game. It makes it more exciting to him, to sneak around with you. It probably fuels his fire at home. He can't be committed with you because he is married; that's what a lot of ow want; that committment. And it just can't be. I think you'd be better off not giving in to his games. You deserve someone that can make that committment. good luck!

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