Question on Text Messaging

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Registered: 11-14-2007
Question on Text Messaging
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Thu, 01-29-2009 - 1:16pm

I need ya'lls input.


I just got a text message from "No Caller ID" stating "Have you told your husband ur having an affair or should I?"


Just a little background... I was in an A for 2 1/2 years but it ended

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Registered: 11-14-2007
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 11:07am

SCU,


Well, the affair wasn't two years ago. It lasted over 2 years and just ended before Christmas in Dec. 08. I still suspect stbx because when she first suspected, she called my cell phone with "no caller id" So, I know she has my number. She also knows where I live cause when all this happened she was parked down my street, I suspect because she wanted to see what I looked like. The only proof she would have is two cards that I gave AP and only one of them has my initials. The handwriting would be what would give me away. The only thing is that AP says he saw her tear them up and throw them in the trash, but I have always suspected that she probably went back to pull them out to refer back to them if she needed to. Other than that, she has never tried to contact me again.


I don't think anybody would have "proof", my fear is that somebody saw something because towards the end we were both very sloppy. I stopped caring who knew and who saw us because I thought we were going to begin a life together anyways.


About changing my number... well I am really considering it. Please give me some ideas on how I would justify that to my husband. What could I say to him so that he won't suspect anything when I change both of our numbers.

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Registered: 11-14-2007
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 11:08am
Thanks Shadowz!
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Registered: 11-28-2007
Fri, 01-30-2009 - 9:04pm

Also could use www.textforfree.org


lightning in my heart

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