Quick update

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Registered: 07-26-2012
Quick update
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Fri, 05-10-2013 - 4:18pm

Today marks 9 months..time is flying by now.  He has been officially divorced for a little over a month now and I've met all but one kid (stepkid that he barely sees himself).  They're all nice to me.  We've gone riding with his daughter a few times...she is the only one that has met my kids and that was an interesting situation.  She was sitting across the table from me (after meeting me for the first time) and she looked at the kids sitting next to me, back at me, back at them, back at me, over at her dad and back at me.  You could see the pieces falling into place in her thoughts but she didn't say anything.

My parents met him.  They're unimpressed.  I went from wealthy nerd to blue collar stud.  They can't figure it out and frankly, I don't care if they do. 

We still get along well.  Only one "fight" and it was more of a misunderstanding where I finally burst out what I thought he meant, he was confused and then it was cleared up.  We're going on our first vacation next week :)  Horses are going along to...of course!

Work kind of sucks.  No one can get used to us being together and it's caused some negative feelings from people that really shouldn't have an issue with it.  I'm looking for a new place to work and with my exit, he will exit as well.  You find out who your friends are in certain parts of your life story.  I'm also going back to college so I can grow up and start a career ;)

He asked me to move in with him.  Will I?  I guess that's a "to be continued" moment in the story.

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Registered: 09-21-2007
Tue, 05-14-2013 - 9:24am

Hi Cowgirl...

I was on the site the other day and I wondered how all was going with your Cowboy. Smile  Sounds like some hurdles, but not anything either of you can't handle.  Lots of luck!!!

 

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