quiet here!

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Tue, 02-18-2014 - 1:36pm

wow.  It sure has been quiet here.  I've been lurking for so long.  I should post something and see who else is still around.

Been in my A for nearly 4 years.  Started out on Ashley Madison.  Has now turned into a much more serious "I love you" A.  It's crazy!

AP still says he won't leave his wife.  I can't figure out what is keeping him.  The youngest leaves for college in the fall.  Should be interesting cause his wife will now focus all her attention onto AP. 

So how has everyone been?  All happy out in A land??

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Registered: 02-28-2014
In reply to: oh_my_my
Fri, 02-28-2014 - 5:55pm

I guess no one is around anymore, I've been lurking here for over 5 years too and it's sad to see everyone gone from MAS, this was the best support board ever and I wonder what happened to all of the members. Did you guys go to another board?

oh_my_my wrote:
<p>wow.  It sure has been quiet here.  I've been lurking for so long.  I should post something and see who else is still around.</p><p>Been in my A for nearly 4 years.  Started out on Ashley Madison.  Has now turned into a much more serious "I love you" A.  It's crazy!</p><p>AP still says he won't leave his wife.  I can't figure out what is keeping him.  The youngest leaves for college in the fall.  Should be interesting cause his wife will now focus all her attention onto AP. </p><p>So how has everyone been?  All happy out in A land??</p>

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Registered: 04-27-2009
In reply to: oh_my_my
Sat, 03-01-2014 - 8:00pm

I'm still here, still in my A...can't believe it's been 5 years since it started! I think things will come to a head in the next couple of years, we are in our 60's and retirement is looming on the horizon which will put a stop to AP travelling to see me (it's a LDA)...the only thing I've ever said to him about leaving his wife was that I didn't think he ever would, he said don't be so sure about that, wait and see what happens....whatever that means!

katuk
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Registered: 02-28-2014
Mon, 03-03-2014 - 2:04pm
Hello katuk9, good to hear someone is still around. 5 years is a long time to be in an A, but years go by fast, don't they? I've been in my A 4 years and it's hard to believe. Good luck with your AP!
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Registered: 04-27-2009
In reply to: katuk9
Wed, 03-05-2014 - 4:13pm

They go by very quickly Springflower14, I've known AP for 46 years and have been in a relationship with him for 11 of them with a 35 year gap in the middle. We are spending a couple of days together next week and I'm so looking forward to it. ;-)

katuk
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Registered: 02-28-2014
Thu, 03-06-2014 - 6:38pm

A couple days together? Well lucky you! I only get to spend time with my AP for an hour when we get to do it, very complicated situation but I do enjoy every minute of it! have fun and let us know how it goes...:)

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Registered: 04-27-2009
In reply to: katuk9
Thu, 03-13-2014 - 6:57pm

A brilliant couple of days spent with AP....he picked me up Monday afternoon and we chatted for the whole 3 hours of the drive to our destination. Out for dinner that evening and more chatting...we do talk a lot, lol! During our conversation he suddenly stopped mid sentence and told me I was very beautiful...yes he's quite a charmer, but it's good to hear that sort of thing

Then back to our room for...I'll leave that bit to your imagination ;-) It was great to wake the next morning and listen to his gentle breathing... a repeat of the previous nights performance before breakfast and then we spent the day at the coast walking and finally sitting and watching the sunset before making our way back to our hotel. 

Out to dinner again and then back to our room to cuddle and watch some TV together...followed by a rinse and repeat of the night before...sometimes it's hard to believe the pair of us are in our 60's, he makes me feel like a teenager again and the chemistry and passion are as strong as they ever were. He is such a considerate lover, always making sure my needs are met before his own.  And did I mention all the talking we did...we don't always agree on things but we never actually argue no matter how passionate we might feel about a subject....we didn't have any 'heavy' conversations about us and our relationship, this was just pure relaxation and enjoyment of each others company.

Wednesday morning we made love again before packing our bags and starting the 3 hour journey home for me...poor AP had another 3 hours of driving before he got home...he must have been shattered poor love. :-) We exchanged emails later that evening just to let each other know that we had arrived home safely and there were no problems.

I don't know when I'll see him again, it could be a couple of months and then there's the summer to contend with...he goes away with his family for 3 weeks so we have no contact during that time. :-(

Kat xx

katuk
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Registered: 02-28-2014
Mon, 03-17-2014 - 6:30pm
I'm so happy for you kat, those two days sound amazing! And don't worry about when will you see him again, Isn't the wait to see him totally worth it? ;) We should start another tread and see who is still around, this is a support board and hardly anyone gives support anymore.
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Registered: 01-09-2014
In reply to: oh_my_my
Wed, 03-19-2014 - 3:54pm
Hi, I know its been a while and its been very quiet. I was formerly Purplerayne007 and yes I'm still with AP. Its going on 5 years next month and things have changed so much. Amazing how quickly time flies. I'm doing ok but can be better given the full plate I have right now but I'm living my wonderful life...one day at a time.
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Registered: 02-28-2014
Thu, 03-20-2014 - 12:54am
Hi purplerain! Glad to see a familiar name around, that's the way to go, living one day at a time! hope all of the old members come back. It used to be a fun board and the support was amazing!
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Registered: 01-09-2014
Thu, 03-20-2014 - 4:37pm
Yes I enjoyed reading the different stories, comments, thoughts and updates on everyone. Things have changed and slowed down on this board that no one frequents it anymore. It was by chance that I logged on to just check. I missed it a great deal although it consumed a good part of my time. How are you Springflower14?

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