re: NEED HELP : REVENGE!!!

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Registered: 01-12-2004
re: NEED HELP : REVENGE!!!
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Tue, 01-13-2004 - 8:50pm
Hi everyone!

Thanks for all your insights regarding my problem with my EMA. I am so grateful that I found this community, you girls helped me sort my head out.(I've posted my story yesterday, entitled: NEED HELP)

It’s been 3 days now, and he still have not made any moves to try to communicate with me… I feel so down… I feel like crying.

At the beginning of our A, I felt like I was special, I started to give extra attention with myself, how I look, how I dress, the way I talk, the way I smile… things that I’ve already forgotten these past few years of my life… A NEW ME!!!

But the way it turned out, I don’t know… I feel depressed… I am so down… The very first EMA I have ever had, and it turned out this way.

Anyway��� thanks again, I know I’d get over this soon… I just wish I could turn the tables, I mean him, begging for me to be back, oh! Wrong phrase… him, begging for me to BJ him!!! If I could just tease him!!!….. REVENGE!!!!!

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Registered: 12-28-2003
Tue, 01-13-2004 - 11:01pm
Hi Hazel

Hazel if you want real revange just keep working on yourself, go to the gym eat healthy, ware stylish cloths, hair done regularly the whole nine yards, when you feel really good about you your going to laugh at men like him and wonder why you had any interest in that sort of a loser.

Who knows my be your husband will wake up and notice the sexy woman he is married to.

Be well

FREE

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 01-14-2004 - 9:41am
Hi Hazel, I agree with Free. Take care of yourself, looking good is the best revenge!! It sounded like (if you don't mind me saying) a humiliating and degrading episode with that guy. I mean, lots of people have affairs mainly for sex (I am) but he ALWAYS treats me with respect as far as that goes. That is why I like him SO much, he is very attentive to my needs and what I want. What he wants always comes 2nd. No matter what we do together, I always come out of it feeling great!!! And although we are pretty discreet, he would never shoo me out of the car or hotel or whatever like that. That's downright rude.

I think you know in your heart, it didn't feel right to you. There's no point in pursuing it if you're only going to feel bad after you see him. Take care,

Dusty
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Registered: 01-04-2004
Wed, 01-14-2004 - 10:15am
hey im liking this "looking good" idea. i think im going to try to push him to the furthest corner of my mind for a few weeks. well unless he shows up, lol. 2 can play this game too! im not in love this guy at all, i just havent had enough (not sex) i just need to know more about what makes him tick!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 01-14-2004 - 10:51am
Hi Daizy, have you seen your guy yet? I talked to mine yesterday and we are talking now too. Anyhow, I joined a gym 3 years ago. Best investment I ever made in myself. I feel great, can eat pretty well whatever I want without worrying, and I KNOW I look good girlfriend!!

Anyways, I'm also taking yoga now, its very good for the inner self. Its all about you, baby!!

Dusty
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Registered: 01-04-2004
Wed, 01-14-2004 - 11:06am
dusty, you sound like your feeling much better! mm's office # is on my caller id this morning, (i was in the shower and missed the call). i cant call back though, everyone in that office knows me, and the odds of him actually answereing the phone are small! im going to join the gym today, he'll be surprised to find i dont have time for him today!
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 01-14-2004 - 11:24am
I am in a good mood today!!! Just talked to MM for most of the morning yesterday and today too. We are going to get together next week probably, he's still sick this week and I'm getting a cold. But things are looking good again!! Have a great day!!

Dusty
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