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ready to show up on his doorstep!
| Sat, 03-27-2004 - 6:38pm |
I am ready for the big blow up! I feel so used. This is so unfair! My life is a mess. Can't function at work or anything. I feel like my life is over.

(((trouble))) You have been so supportive of me this week, and I want you to know that I know exactly what you're going through. If you want my advice, which may not be very good at this point since I'm a little raw, but DO NOT call, DO NOT show up at his doorstep. Let him think that it doesn't matter. I know, I know, very hard for us to do. These friggin' $!@$#@!, expect us to wait around for them, and then everything be peachy and we're all happy (for what, two seconds?) when they pay us an iota of attention. Well, SCREW them!
Sorry, I told you, I'm raw.
We're strong women! We deserve better! Unfortunately, we are givers, they are takers - the nature of the beast! Ooooo, this makes me sooo mad!
Honey, I know it's hard, but you are better than this. Demand respect! The only way to get it, is to make it seem like you are ignoring him, not the other way around. When he comes grovelling (which he will), snuff him off. Easier said than done, but you can do it! Put the shoe on the other foot - then see what happens.
Okay, my heart-broken two cents may seem quite bitter (which it is), but I can't help it right now. My H is crying today, while my XMM is getting off scott-free. Where is the justice? Sorry again, my anger is coming out.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
(((((((((xxx_trouble)))))))
Red
RAIN is TAKENNNNNNNNN...
seriously though...to a point I agree with Red on the next post, but the confronting the A$$ and telling him that you have put a lot of time and effort into what the 2 of you have had over the past years, and that you definitely deserve better, is really another way of being strong...as long as you confront him STRONGLY, and don't break down in tears the first time you see him...
Just my 2c
~notso
:)
Circe