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REALITY CHECK
| Sat, 06-06-2009 - 2:52pm |
Hi all,
I never thought I would be writing this message. I am 33 and single, been through my share of good relationships but none quite good enough for me to want to settle down. I wanted to wait for that incredible person. And then

Hi Mimijiminy,
I wish I knew myself as well as you sound like you do at your age! Good for you that you do not want to go down the Affair path and have made it clear with the man you met. Who knows what life will bring, if there is a chance in the future for you and him. The important part is that you don't want to start a relationship that way. There are people who do end up together, it is a very long and hard path though, if he is wanting to get divorced, then that process will be a confusing and emotional time. I left my ex-husband and was involved with my affair partner at the time and all it did for me was distract me (somewhat) through that process. Now, four years later I'm dealing with the feelings that I should have been dealing with then. So again good for you that you don't want to start a relationship at this time. If it's meant to be it will, and it will be without all the complications of an affair, hurt parties on all sides, you, his wife, children, and him.
Take care :)