Is This Really An Affair..What Happened?
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Is This Really An Affair..What Happened?
| Sat, 02-06-2010 - 3:51pm |
I developed a crush on someone I was working out with at the gym I go to.
| Sat, 02-06-2010 - 3:51pm |
I developed a crush on someone I was working out with at the gym I go to.
talking and flirting and meeting to work out is not an affair.
you told him you have a crush on him and then you wrote him a note telling him how passionately you feel for him?
he does not want to "fall in love" nor lead you on and i think he might think that you are "falling" for him, and that is not what he wants.
he probably thinks he wants a fun, physical release with a mutual understanding that stuff will end as it needs to, or that if anything develops that it will be just a fun, casual thing, married guys like 'casual, once in a while' type things. although he also may not know what he wants and having you write this passionate note, well - that could be construed as a love letter, and no one in A land wants to hear that 4 letter word... soooo....
want to share what u wrote?
I don't remember exactly what the note said anymore...
Probably freaked him right out.
You've got a lot of choices. I