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really embarrassing sex questions
| Wed, 11-19-2003 - 2:45pm |
Ok, I am really embarrassed to be asking these questions but I figure, who better to ask than a bunch of stangers? :-)
I am on the verge of turning my emotional A into a sexual one. My problem is that I have never had sex with anyone else other than H. We've been together for 13 years (highschool sweethearts). So I am realllyyyy nervous about this guy seeing me naked. I mean I have two kids so the tummy isn't looking that good. Will he really care? He says he won't but yuck... I look good otherwise, I am super fit, pretty darn cute and everything, it is just that tummy that is horrible. (stretch marks and such)
I am on the verge of turning my emotional A into a sexual one. My problem is that I have never had sex with anyone else other than H. We've been together for 13 years (highschool sweethearts). So I am realllyyyy nervous about this guy seeing me naked. I mean I have two kids so the tummy isn't looking that good. Will he really care? He says he won't but yuck... I look good otherwise, I am super fit, pretty darn cute and everything, it is just that tummy that is horrible. (stretch marks and such)
Is it going to be crazy good when a new guy goes down? Is his penis **blush blush** going to "taste" different? Oh my, I am soooo curious!
Also will it be totally different? I sure hope so cause that is what I am going for. If it is the same I will kinda be dissappointed that I risked everything for the samething.
Oh I am soooo nervous, yet excited beyond words! I don't even care if we do it once and then never again, feels like I just need to get this out of my system and have something of my own!
All thoughts would be appreciated please!
Happy

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I also found that he was having alot of the same worries. He is in really good shape, but he has small frame.
As for the Penis, MM is totally different, size, taste, the way it makes me feel LOL.
Nothing with MM is even close to the same as it is with H.
I know that my MM loves me, he loved me from the start so he was very considerate of my feelings.
Relax, Relax, and Enjoy!!!
dayz
Dusty
Also, sex is just sex. If all you're after is an orgasm, you can get a manual or battery-powered one. I'm not expecting things to be all that radically different... After all, it's pretty much the same equipment, just a size or shape variation here or there. As they say, "all cats are grey in the night". I guess what I'm saying is that the fulfillment that comes from having sex with your new man will probably stem from the excitement you feel in his presence, the electricity, the chemistry...
And as for being self-conscious, you attracted him, right? And you attracted your H. Even with my physical imperfections, I have never been at a loss for men being attracted to me, because I carry myself as if every man in the room wants me and I know it.
So get wit' your new man and *work it*, girl! :-)
Thanks again guys, it is so nice to have support on such a "weird" subject.
Happy
hahahaha!!
anyway, to answer you and the ladies before me have done a marvelous job of it, PLEASE DO NOT WORRY ABOUT YOUR BODY! men have told me (and i've done a poll among my girlfriends, all of whom have had children and are NOT in the best shape!) that they love our bodies because WE are in them and no matter what the body looks like, the enjoyment is all there in the breasts, booty and between the legs!!
so not to worry honey. go for it, relax and have an uninhibited time with your man.
by the way, every penis tastes different, looks different and is used differently. no two are alike, just like snowflakes!!
experiment, go with the flow and do whatever feels good! have fun - that's the whole point!
lucky girl, you.
gurl
HTH to answer other questions too
Tam
Hi Happy,
I think the girls have already done a wonderful job of alleviating your fears... that are just like many of us.
Sweet
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