really embarrassing sex questions

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Registered: 08-11-2003
really embarrassing sex questions
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Wed, 11-19-2003 - 2:45pm
Ok, I am really embarrassed to be asking these questions but I figure, who better to ask than a bunch of stangers? :-)

I am on the verge of turning my emotional A into a sexual one. My problem is that I have never had sex with anyone else other than H. We've been together for 13 years (highschool sweethearts). So I am realllyyyy nervous about this guy seeing me naked. I mean I have two kids so the tummy isn't looking that good. Will he really care? He says he won't but yuck... I look good otherwise, I am super fit, pretty darn cute and everything, it is just that tummy that is horrible. (stretch marks and such)

Is it going to be crazy good when a new guy goes down? Is his penis **blush blush** going to "taste" different? Oh my, I am soooo curious!

Also will it be totally different? I sure hope so cause that is what I am going for. If it is the same I will kinda be dissappointed that I risked everything for the samething.

Oh I am soooo nervous, yet excited beyond words! I don't even care if we do it once and then never again, feels like I just need to get this out of my system and have something of my own!

All thoughts would be appreciated please!

Happy

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Registered: 04-10-2003
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 8:25pm
Hey I know how you feel. When I finally realized what was happening, I declined to sleep with him. Told him I had to lose weight first. Told him I would not let him see me naked until my tummy was gone. But he had other plans. He made me feel soo good. He made me forget my belly. We just enjoy being with each other..
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Registered: 11-13-2003
Wed, 11-19-2003 - 11:03pm
Thanks for asking these questions, Happy! The responses you received were just what I needed to read tonight. I am dealing with some of the same thoughts right now. I am two months into a long distance A and we have planned a weekend away this weekend. It will be our first chance for intimacy. I leave on a flight in the morning. I am not nervous, just excited. And, I wonder what it will be like to have someone different after 17 years with H. I think I will find out as soon as my plane lands. Let us know how it works out for you and I will let you know when I return on Sunday!

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