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| Fri, 08-06-2010 - 11:05pm |
Brief background( again!) I am MW 3 mos. into A with MM We met VERY briefly about a year or so ago and re-acquainted 3 mos ago and he told me he had a crush on me for over a year since he first met me.

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Hi New,
It seems to me that after all that persuing he did and he finally got what he wanted which was sex with you that he fulfilled his curiosity and left it at that. He doesn't want to be friends which is why he replied to you by saying "what else could we be given our situations"? He's pretty much saying he doesn't want nothing more and is keeping his distance so feelings don't get involved.
Affairs don't have rules and do you want to continue having an A with him knowing that he can turn Hot & Cold at any moment? If you do I hope your not in for the rollercoaster ride of your life.
Wishing you all the best and that this works out well for you.
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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I'm not in a position right now to
I can see where your coming from based upon his response of what else could we be considering our situations, but he also said he has no intention of ending this, and also said at the end of that conversation that all of the intracacies will be worked out, when I told him more about what I meant when by friendship he responded that he couldn't say yes or no and needed to mull it over.
I can see why anyone would think he just wanted to satisfy his curiosity with me sexually, but then why would he continue to call me albeit sporadically? It's rather confusing to me I guess.
This stuff is now making my evil twin want to come out and play, because I don't like to be taken advantage of and when we had out initial meeting
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