-his generosity - of spirit, of things, and in bed
-his tenderness
-his compassion
-his irreverance
-his passion
-his mind
-his sense of humor
-his chest ;-) God, I love his chest!
-his smile, especially the dimples!
-his laugh
-his devotion and loyalty to others
-his self-discipline (MOST of the time, just not when it affects me, lol!)
-his sense of adventure
-his love for me
-his sense of duty
-the way he treats both children and animals
-his way of talking me down during both my manic and depressive states
-how his voice changes when he's talking to me
-his dirty jokes, lol!
-the way he looks at me when we're alone together
-his *almost* perfect ability to know when to joke me out of a mood and when to gentle me out of a mood
-the way a simple, innocent little touch by him...on my face or neck, for instance, can send electric shocks through me
-the way he'll ruffle my hair at work when he feels a need to touch me but he can't because of where we are (you gotta know my hairstyle, I guess, but trust me, no one would know the difference, lol)
-the sex. I'd be a liar if I didn't say that I love him for the sex, too, lol!!
-how he appreciates me - as a person, as a friend, as a lover.
-his sense of fair and of right and wrong and how angry he gets when the world doesn't measure up to that ideal. I love that about him, even if I don't always agree with it!
Hmmm...I'm looking over that list. I guess I'm smitten, huh?? :-)
I love MM because of how he has always made me feel. He has a way of lighting my day when we are together, whether that be in person or on the phone. His hands, his touch, his look, his voice, his smile.....*sigh*
Hi, I just found ivillage recently and have been browsing these boards. Saw this one and was curious as to why people cheat so I thought this board might be interesting to visit.
My number one top thing that I love about my MM is that he doesn't cheat! I'm married to him myself.
I pity anyone that wants to be with someone who is already spoken for. Why would anyone want to be in a relationship that is based on a lie? Hopefully anyone reading this will eventually find happiness without it being at the expense of others... meaning your lover's or your own wives/husbands, children and family.
Those of you who are betraying your own spouse, my advice is this. Either work it out with your spouse or leave. If your spouse is lacking something that your lover isn't, shouldn't you tell your spouse so he/she can help to fix whatever is wrong? If they aren't willing or just can't, then wouldn't it be better to leave?
No matter what excuses you come up with, I can't imagine that any relationship based on cheating, lying and sneaking around can come to any good.
Edited 2/22/2004 8:20:07 AM ET by mankella
on Valentines Day.....to mention a few...he gives me everything
I need before I ask for it....he's never disappointed me...
he challenges me to be a better person, for his enthusiasm
about taking me places and showing
me around...responsibility...love he gives me....
One of my married friends said she could find perhaps 5(the most) to love her
husband...kind of sad...;)
1. He is a kind and caring person
2.Always willing to help others
3.his eyes
4.he makes me want to be a better person
5.sex is great
6.good listener
7.expects and gives honesty
8.my needs are important to him
9.the time and love he gives me
10.his ticklish spots
11.the openess i feel when i am with him
12.being a good father is important to him
13. hes a planner
14. he is responsible
15. willingness to teach others what he knows
i could go on more but I will keep it short but I will say that in general he is a very good person
later
SB
Seeburg
-his tenderness
-his compassion
-his irreverance
-his passion
-his mind
-his sense of humor
-his chest ;-) God, I love his chest!
-his smile, especially the dimples!
-his laugh
-his devotion and loyalty to others
-his self-discipline (MOST of the time, just not when it affects me, lol!)
-his sense of adventure
-his love for me
-his sense of duty
-the way he treats both children and animals
-his way of talking me down during both my manic and depressive states
-how his voice changes when he's talking to me
-his dirty jokes, lol!
-the way he looks at me when we're alone together
-his *almost* perfect ability to know when to joke me out of a mood and when to gentle me out of a mood
-the way a simple, innocent little touch by him...on my face or neck, for instance, can send electric shocks through me
-the way he'll ruffle my hair at work when he feels a need to touch me but he can't because of where we are (you gotta know my hairstyle, I guess, but trust me, no one would know the difference, lol)
-the sex. I'd be a liar if I didn't say that I love him for the sex, too, lol!!
-how he appreciates me - as a person, as a friend, as a lover.
-his sense of fair and of right and wrong and how angry he gets when the world doesn't measure up to that ideal. I love that about him, even if I don't always agree with it!
Hmmm...I'm looking over that list. I guess I'm smitten, huh?? :-)
Lucky
Mama
- his patience
- his kisses - I love the way his mush tickles when we kiss. I have never kissed a man with a mush!! LOL
- his kindness
- his smile
- and everything else about him.
My number one top thing that I love about my MM is that he doesn't cheat! I'm married to him myself.
I pity anyone that wants to be with someone who is already spoken for. Why would anyone want to be in a relationship that is based on a lie? Hopefully anyone reading this will eventually find happiness without it being at the expense of others... meaning your lover's or your own wives/husbands, children and family.
Those of you who are betraying your own spouse, my advice is this. Either work it out with your spouse or leave. If your spouse is lacking something that your lover isn't, shouldn't you tell your spouse so he/she can help to fix whatever is wrong? If they aren't willing or just can't, then wouldn't it be better to leave?
No matter what excuses you come up with, I can't imagine that any relationship based on cheating, lying and sneaking around can come to any good.
miaredhead
As far as my fellow "sisters" here on the board, the reason I love my MM are as follows:
1. His passion
2. His laughter
3. His dark brown eyes
4. His gentleness
5. His wit
6. His smell....oh, how good he smells!
7. His understanding
8. His athleticism...and the body to go with it!
9. His sympathy for others
10. His intelligence
11. His excellent taste in everything
12. His legs....wonderful legs!
13. His love
14. The way he makes me feel just by hearing his voice
15. EVERYTHING!!!
Pls dont judge unless you've been there!
And btw.....
Even the most perfect husband/wife are out there....cheating.
So, you never know.
My reasons I luv my MM:
1-the way he smirks when I walk into the room.
2-the way he moans when I massage him.
3-his smile
4-his fingers, they're odd....sexy
5-his walk
6-the way he teases!
7-our private code word, meant for only us to know.
TOW
for the person he is for nobody else would do...
his minuses and much as his pluses
his sweet wet kisses
for daring to show his emotions, sometimes...
his love for his wife and children
his generosity in bed
the warmth of his hugs
and everything else