Reconsidering A after reading this board

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-06-2010
Reconsidering A after reading this board
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Wed, 01-06-2010 - 8:38pm

I have been reading posts on this board and on the EAS board as after reading alot of the posts I am seriously reconsidering a potential A .


I had an A a little over 3 years ago and I it was a painful ending that took alot of time to heal from. But, here I am again. I was supposed to meet him tonight...but I did not go. I want to say I am so happy I didn't..but

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2009
Thu, 01-07-2010 - 11:43am

Please stay strong and stay away.


i had an affair over 10 years ago.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2009
Thu, 01-07-2010 - 11:39pm
If you can possibly avoid it, do. I'm not telling you anything you don't already know, but I'm falling treacherously in love with my AP a little more each day and I know that the ending of this R could be very, very painful for me. I have had some As before but this is the first time I have ever had these kinds of feelings about an AP. I wish I could feel less for him, but I am just falling deeper everyday. What if he decides to focus on his R and wants to end things with me? What if his GF finds out about us? I wish I didn't have to worry about these things and could just focus on the good feelings I'm having as I fall hard for this guy. Ugh.