Reintroduction!

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Registered: 06-24-2004
Reintroduction!
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Wed, 04-21-2010 - 6:41pm

Have been gone a long time and pretty sure I do not recognize any names..so let me reintroduce!

I have been in an A with a MM for almost 6.5 years. At the time it began I was married as well. My divorce will be final soon. He is still married and will remain that way.

Met someone new...and really like him...yeah...he is M too...and just cannot stay way from the first MM.

ExH is engaged...LOL...he asked her on FB and she answered on FB...how crazy is that? He only recently met her. Not jealous in the least that he is getting remarried...although I am hoping he waits will the divorce is final...LOL...I am jealous of the fact that he can be public with this new relationship and mine are still secret. GRRRRRRR

So...have I missed anything good in the last couple years?

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 04-22-2010 - 7:04am

I have been here a few years at least (don't even remember exactly when I first joined up here). Did you have a different name before Naptimes? :-)

Welcome back to MAS!

Do you ever wonder why you seem to be drawn to married men rather than single? Wouldn't it be nice to be like your ex-H and get all mushy on FB? LOL

Anyway glad you've come back here, hope to see you posting. :-)

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Fri, 04-23-2010 - 10:58pm

Hey naptime you seem to have a lot of self awareness and a sense of humor which is prob why your affairs are working out for ya!

Lexi im thinking about what you asked about the single m vs mm and I have to say there is not much normality out there in the single world that I can see. And I meet a wide diverse amount of men and no one compares to my MM..No one.

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Registered: 06-24-2004
Sat, 05-08-2010 - 8:00pm

Sorry to post and run...Mom had a huge medical emergency and I have been mia for a while...

Lexi...I'm not so curious as to why I am attracted to married men...I am more curious as to why married men are attracted to me? So...besides my first MM...when I was also married...I have been hit on by at least a dozen married men...and only a couple single men...? I just don't get that?? Am I a MM Magnet???

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Sat, 05-08-2010 - 8:02pm
Never...after all I have been through I have to have a sense of humor...would never make it without!!!
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Sun, 05-09-2010 - 9:45am

I hope your mom is OK!

I have no clue why more MM hit on you than single men? That's strange. Maybe you give off a vibe that you are open to that kind of relationship? I have heard that although it LOOKS like men do the choosing, it's really women who do the choosing. Yes, men usually do the "approaching", but women first give signals for the man to approach. A man will almost never approach without the woman giving body signals etc. that she may be open to an approach - things like looking at the man just a tad longer than is normal, and then looking away after he notices. Twirling hair, running a finger around a glass - they are actually "signals" that she will not reject him if he approaches - not that she's going to jump into bed with him, just that she will probably be willing to engage in conversation etc. A lot of single women never give those signals to a married man, whether he's attractive or her physical type or not.

I dunno, I'm just throwing stuff out there LOL.

Anyway yes it is good to have a sense of humor - for any situation really. Makes the bumps in the road a little less bumpy. And again, I hope your mom is now well!

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Tue, 06-08-2010 - 8:06pm

Mom is well...major emergency but on the road to recovering from what was 100% supposed to kill her! YAY!

So...back to the MM thing...I will have to be more aware of myself...but some of these are men that I have known for a LONG time...and then out of the blue they take a chance...the current however was not like that...he had not seen me in person at all...but we just clicked and were drawn to each other....This is going on 10 months now...last one was at 6 years in Jan...and he is still around...

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Wed, 06-09-2010 - 9:45am
Glad your mom is OK! Good to see you again, and to know all is well. :-)

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