Rejected! He feels guilty
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Rejected! He feels guilty
| Fri, 01-16-2004 - 11:32pm |
What was to be four days in paradise for me has not exactly turned out like I expected. My MM and I have escaped for a few days together during a convention. Last night was wonderful. This morning, he couldn't handle the guilt. The wife called while we were still in bed and that made it worse. He just wanted to get up and leave. We spent the day in meetings. We are attending a convention and are keeping our relationship a secret. It is hard with the 400 people here to hide it, so we got separate rooms so it wouldn't be obvious. The plan was for us to only use one room but he went to his room! I feel rejected! He rejected me this morning and now I am not sure if he will come back. I am really on the down side of this rollercoaster. Any advice?

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hope that helps
SB
Seeburg
try not to be to disappointed if he doesn't show.. Sometimes these R we get in turn out to be so complicated.. and I AM speaking from experience on that... It has been one H*LL of a day. I myself am ready to crawl into bed and pull the covers over my head, I keep telling myself tomorrow is a new day.
Keep me posted on what happens,
SB
Seeburg
It's never easy, is it? Let us know what happened.
Charlotte
We are both happily married, with children and openly communicated to each other that we just wanted to be friends with benefits. Neither of us ever had the intention of leaving our spouses and we have both admitted that we are not in love with each other.
Of course, I am more emotionally attached and I think that he has started to become attached, too. This is probably what is bothering him. Thursday night he told me that he cared deeply for me and this was not just all about sex. We had an incredible night of passion on Thursday night and when we woke up on Friday morning he burried his head in his hands and said, "I just don't know if I can continue this. I feel guilty." At that moment, his W called and that made it worse.
I really don't know what to expect next. But I am dreading tonight. His W flys in tonight to join him for the formal awards dinner. I will get to meet her for the first time and at a time that I feel rejected.
Thanks for your support and your encouragement! I'd love opinions on what to do next.
It was hard for me to watch him with her especially when the dancing began. I stayed focused on the many other friends I had at the party and tried not to show my sadness. We all fly home to different cities tomorrow. It is not likely that I will see him at all tomorrow. I am hurting inside and not too sure what to do next. I am really disappointed because he flipped out on me after a most incredible night. I really do not want to end this affair, but he's not sure he can handle it. Any advice?
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