Relationship Comfort Zone?
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Relationship Comfort Zone?
| Thu, 04-22-2004 - 8:48pm |
I'm wondering if anyone else out there has fallen into a relationship comfort zonein thier EMA? I was just reading the post from yesterday about men vs. women and compartimentlizing. BTW - I feel the same way!! I wish I could keep it for what it is and not be so bound by when the next phone call is, the next time I see him, etc. MM and I speak to each other usuually everyday - sometimes more than that. We usually get together about once a week (although, recently - we haven't had the opportunity to "play" too much - but, we have seen each other) It's going on about a year - and lately, I've been feeling this sense of "comfort zone" in our R. Is this happening to anyone else? I can't figure out if it's good or bad? I do know that recently when he's said it's been family days or he's w/his W, I've felt a sense of jealously that I never felt before. Also, he was out the other day and told me about this "beautiful" women he met - I also felt some jealously when he told me this. He had every right to be with the family, out with friends etc - I just wish I could be a bigger part of his life.
What do you think this means?

safe and that is an incredible feeling -
He and I have been able to talk and have connected uniquely since day one and
to this day ..this very second in fact It amazes me someone - with one word can put
a genuine smile on my face and make me feel like the most important person in this
world - when I know he doesn't have to do this.
Comfort for me is knowing I am there in his heart, and that I am the first person
he can't wait to share his day with - Comfort is hearing his voice and it calming me
down after a hard long day - Comfort is his touch after missing it for so long -
Comfort is many many wonderful things to me -
So to me it's definately good -
Kikki
Love