restraining order on H

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-11-2004
restraining order on H
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Wed, 03-31-2004 - 10:21am
Oh my, Where do I begin. Anyways I went and got a restraining order on H. He should recieve it sometime today. I'm starting to feel awful about it. He showed up at my workplace last night Crying and really upset. .Brought me a dozeb roses. And wants to work things out. I just feel like there is nothing to work out, But than again a lil piece of my heart is broken. Dont know what to do. Just really confused and have an awful feeling of guilt.
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Registered: 01-19-2004
Wed, 03-31-2004 - 10:29am
Ibreezy you must have heard the proverb!

"What goes around, comes around"

Don't make this process of ending your marriage a degrading, humiliating and hurting process for your husband since ultimately it will come back to you. If he is not hurting you physically, you should try to spend a lot of time with him, making him understand why you are doing what you are doing, why you have to leave, why you desire no ill-will for him and trying to preserve his self-respect in this process. Give him and yourself closure or those open wounds will always haunt you.

JMO

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