Results of Your Affair - A Survey

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Registered: 10-01-2008
Results of Your Affair - A Survey
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Sun, 11-02-2008 - 10:57pm

I'm always looking to find those happy endings, but it has occurred to me that perhaps those people don't visit these sections of the boards.

Pink Passion Flower

 

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Registered: 04-23-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 10:47am

1. If you're married, did you leave your marriage for your AP? No, left marriage before affair
2. Or, did you leave your marriage for other reasons (ie irreconcilable differences)? left marriage for the reasons of growing apart and husbands mental issues

3. Whether you're single or married, did your AP leave his marriage to be with you? Yes!!

4. Regardless of the above three questions, are you content or happy with your current situation in an affair? Very happy! We are planning or life together

5. If you are holding out hope to be together in the future with your AP, do you really believe it will happen? Yes I know it will happen because everyday we discuss or future and are putting plans into motion.

6. What are the top two reasons that you believe a MM will not leave his wife when he is not happy in the R? Finances and family pressures to make marriage work

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Registered: 05-28-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 10:59am
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Registered: 10-03-2006
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 12:17pm

1. If you're married, did you leave your marriage for your AP?

No, I left for me.

2. Or, did you leave your marriage for other reasons (ie irreconcilable differences)?

I left because it just wasn't working and hadn't been working for quite a while.

3. Whether you're single or married, did your AP leave his marriage to be with you?

No, he is still M.

4. Regardless of the above three questions, are you content or happy with your current situation in an affair?

I'm indifferent at the moment.

5. If you are holding out hope to be together in the future with your AP, do you really believe it will happen?

In the back of my mind, I would love for us to be together someday. I think we'd truly be an awesome couple. However, we haven't been in our A for very long (almost 3 months), things happened very quickly and I think it's really too soon to tell if we'll really end up together or not.

6. What are the top two reasons that you believe a MM will not leave his wife when he is not happy in the R?

I'm giving three reasons. Finances, his son and lack of balls.

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Registered: 09-03-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 8:46pm

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Registered: 08-19-2008
Thu, 11-06-2008 - 9:36pm

>>>"I just want to know how long do you wait?"<<<

That's entirely up to you. If you ask me, I think 5-years is long ENOUGH and a minute more than that, you should resign yourself to always "just" be the OW (the bridesmaid but never going to be the bride).

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Thu, 11-06-2008 - 9:40pm

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Registered: 11-06-2007
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 12:33pm

Hi All - I haven't posted in quite some time but I still lurk & read here frequently.

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Registered: 08-25-2006
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 2:57pm
Serenity
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Registered: 10-01-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 6:31pm

I really like your answer to the last question - it made me laugh, but oh - it's so true of men... they do like to talk the talk, but when it gets down to it they don't walk the walk (lack of balls - I like that!!).


Pink Passion Flower

 

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Registered: 10-01-2008
Fri, 11-07-2008 - 7:14pm
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